A few girls who like me won't leave me alone and keep bothering me and now other people are starting to notice. Now it is becoming a problem because the girls I do like are starting to think I like the girls who won't leave me alone. I have already made it clear I don't like them and I am being nice about so far. So what do I do?
2006-10-31 16:19:03 · 11 answers · asked by ??? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be more firm with the girls that you don't like and make sure that they understand that there's no hope. Maybe if you say something like "I'd rather put my penis into a blender than ever let you touch it" would be blunt enough. But they'll leave you alone if they think you're not interested, they're not going to be wasting their time, they only pursue you because you're giving them some sort of encouragement.
And, yeah, the girl that you like might not be interested if she thinks you're interested in these other girls. Not because she is afraid of competition or anything like that but because she questions your taste. Before I hooked up with my BF, there was this other guy that liked me but I didn't want anything to do with him because I knew some of the women that he'd hooked up with in the past and, ugh, I don't want anything to do with any guy that had anything to do with them.
2006-10-31 16:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So quit being so nice! You need to learn to set appropriate boundaries. You can be firm with your "no" without being awful but you can also stop sending a "mixed message" that they're interpreting as interest.
See a counselor if necessary. Generally, people can tell if you're not interested and so maybe if you STOP TALKING to the girls that you don't like. Don't look at them, ignore them! Because your'e going to lose the girls that you do like.
These bimboes are probably trying to do that, drive a wedge between you and the ones you like, so they can keep you to themselves.
It takes two to tango so quit dancing to their tune!
2006-10-31 16:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by The Divorce Guru 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell those girls you are gay. ive used this excuse a lot of times and so far it works. just tell the girl or girls you like that you're not really gay. you're just saying it for them to leave you alone. lol be careful though!
2006-10-31 16:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by isabella528 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the girls and try to stay as far away from them as possible! tell an adult too - someone who can be watching out for you.
2006-10-31 16:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be mean and hurtful to the one you don't like they will get the picture if the girls you do like don't know you well enough to know you don't like the otherones then they are to shallow for you anyways.
2006-10-31 16:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by rsbalent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them about all the girls that you do like and they'll be all...oh lol
2006-10-31 16:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Just wonderin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are being too nice.
2006-10-31 16:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being nice!! and tell them to leave you alone!
2006-10-31 16:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet porn is better than the fantasy you have concocted here. Sorry, just my opinion.
2006-10-31 16:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wake up,take a shower,and go to your dead end job. You wish!!!
2006-10-31 16:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋