Why are men so FRUSTRATING??!!?

Question

This guy and I have been kind of playing eachother, saying that we didn't want anything serious, but we are really close friends too. Then we kissed, and I realized that I want our relationship to be either dating or nothing, I cannot just play around. It has been 2 weeks, and I have no answer from him. We text each other and he says he wants to talk in person. But we don't live in the same town. I just want to know how he feels. This is really frustrating me. What am I suppose to do? Are all men this incapable of telling a woman how he really feels?

Answer 1

Hello!.......... It seems he is happy with the speed of the relationship, leaving you frustrated! Do you not remember saying YOU didn't want anything too serious? For the person concerned - apart from "we kissed" and in your words "I feel different now", what has changed on his page?????.......... Give the poor bloke a ring, tell him what you posted here, a little honesty goes a long way!!!!

Answer 2

One of a few things is happening here:

1. He just doesn't really care too much about you and wants to let you down easy. Men usually don't shatter women like women do men--they try to be gentle about it.
2. He is attracted to you but doesn't have any sexual desire for you and this was confirmed by kissing you. Sort of like it would feel kissing a cousin or a sibling (unless you are into incest, at which point nevermind).
3. He has been fried by previous relationships some of which may have similiarities to that which he has with you and he doesn't want to get hurt again.
4. He is in another relationship and is confused about what in the hell does he do now.
5. The long distance thing is just that . . . long distance, maybe he just wants to be f-buddies with you when he happens to be in town.

What should you do? Freakin' drive your butt out to where he is and talk to him. Ask him straight up what is going on.

Answer 3

You need to see the looks in each others faces and the body language as well. When you cannot see the other person, it gets very difficult to judge what the other person is thinking. You've both complicated the situation by "playing" each other. Playing games creates problems. I would expect that he does like you though. If I were going to reject you at such an early stage, I would be at least as likely to do it remotely as I would to do it in person. But if I liked you back, I would want to be able to read you in person. That's just how I would go about it though. I understand women a lot better than most men. Be patient! Good night!

Answer 4

My Lady Friend,
I say to you that if this man lives in another town, no matter how far, if he Loves you he would show up to your home, in or out, any-way he could.
I lived in Sherman oaks, I was a professional fighter, The Terminator, I use to go see my lady friend in Santa Barbra, Stephanie, God she was so beautiful and she was Love. I blew it for I was a young man in the candy store of women, that is my reason's for not going back everyday, it was easier to play around the corner instead of the heavy training in the morning, the traffic, etc... I got nooky close and blew the long distance for a piece of Dairy-Arie, the long distance was a keeper relationship, the near one was a fish you throw back in, you touch it, you just don't bag it, you might even cut the line to drop her back in the water.
Investigate, call cheaters, then you will know for sure, it sounds like he is torn between two lovers and not two cities? Who Knows for sure but he does, now put him on that medicine and take him to the lie detector test in thousand oaks and walk him all I believe it is?
Good Luck & Peace Out!
"Terry The Terminator"

Answer 5

LOL! Not all men, but most. It sounds a bit like you're being a little impatient too. It's only been two weeks, don't expect a marriage proposal. If you've told him how you feel give him time to react. If you've fallin for him then he has to be a good guy. And if he is then he's worth the wait.

Answer 6

Unfortunately, most men are incapable. Heck, I pretty much have to get really upset or pissed off for my boyfriend to say anything. God forbid I ever get anything sentimental, except on some holiday. lol That's how most guys are though. If this guy doesn't say anything to you, then move on and stop replying to his text messages. You don't have time to wait on him and you could pass on a great guy by waiting for this one, which seems to be heading nowhere.

Answer 7

Love is contained in the heart and soul. genuine love will not in any respect die and sexual frustration is only a launch of a actual want. want or large sex comes from the ideas and desirous to percentage it with the only which you want if you're quite in love. authentic, lust comes into play yet fulfillment of lust is a non everlasting 'restoration' of ones emotions and needs. all of us have lusted for someone. some exhibit their lust overtly even as others will save it hidden. you're interpreting the position ever and also you're aside for a reason. you want to larger perfect your self and to percentage your accomplishments with someone you want. Absence makes the heart improve fonder of someone you quite love. puzzling because it could be...once you ultimately income your objective of education, your existence will change into more effective good, there'll be diverse time for sex. Masturbation will quite save the sentiments of lust less than administration. go ahead and deliver him those horny photos he needs. certainly it sounds more effective than sexually annoyed...he's lonely and he needs you by technique of his part. stay the coarse...with a bit of luck he feels an same about you and also you'll have a sturdiness at the same time.

Answer 8

some man having problem showing wrong sign to gals that is thier problem . he want ot met in person because thios will show he want to tell infornt of you not in the phone . may b you can ask him to come by you town to talk. close friend can do alot of things. we can share noodle or a cup latte at the same time . she can hold my friend even as a friend but if having sex, just say no to him .

Answer 9

hey not all men are frustrating..
well i think might be hes just fooling u around..
but if u think tht he is good frend of urs.. n hes affectionate abt u too.. then give him some time.. u dnt let urself flow into him..
if hes not daring to tell u, might be he wants the rite time to come.. or might be he havent really felt so deep..
care abt him.. n make him feel ur love with tender...

give him some time.. if u feel like its time then commit to him.. n hope for the best..
good luck..i wish the best for u.

Answer 10

Well, if he doesn't get back to you, then he's avoiding you. Possibly just a player and not serious about getting into a relationship. Just dump him and move on. Guys like him aren't worth your time waiting for.