Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

I have this neighbor who is moving today. I go outside to say my goodbye at him at the moving truck, but he said he wants to come over to my apartment later to personally say goodbye. Granted we have been flirting with eachother for about 6 months. Why couldn't he just say goodbye to me when I went outside and saw him moving is stuff? Do you think he wants to give me more than a verbal goodbye?

2006-10-31 16:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

Im 16 year's old and my Bf (18) and i want to get married. we've talked it over with my mother but she hasnt said anything yet. Im now 5mths pregnant and we planned on getting married in june, but i dont know what to do. i've been with him for 2 years and were much in love. i wanted to know is there anything that i could do to speed up the process. *im in colorado*

2006-10-31 16:46:16 · 24 answers · asked by A.Coffman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He, likes to hang out with his friends, and I stay home withthe children while he's at work, but sometimes, I need a break and he doesn't even offer to take the load off. He'll much rather leave with his friends and leave me in the house with the kids.

2006-10-31 16:45:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I still get spanked and I just want to know how others get/got it. Stuff like is it private or not, bare or not, what you get spanked with, who does it, how hard, how fast, ect. Like I get it in my room by my mom only, I have to lay on my bed and I get it with a hairbrush on my bare butt. I get popped too many times, but they come fast and kinda hard. I don't bruise or anything and I usually deserve it.

2006-10-31 16:45:29 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1 in Family

recognizing that EVERY person is DIFFERENT, still, what are some common themes you'd find in the middle child's life and adulthood?

2006-10-31 16:44:44 · 10 answers · asked by Hot Lips 4077 5 in Family

I am 17 years old and i live with my mom, her and i have been through some tough things and she has lost her mind. she has this "friend" and he stays here all the time and he might be the father of another woman's baby and my mother has told him he can move in and they will take care of the baby together, i have become so uncomfortable here that staying is no longer an option. i feel unsafe and i know she will pick him over me and tell me to leave so i want to know as long as she says i can leave, i can right? and she cant have the police come after me, should i get her to sign something? i need to leave this house before something aweful happens and my life is in danger which probably isnt far from now. i have a boyfriend and he said i can stay with him but if i leave without my mom knowing she can press charges against him for kidnapping.
anyone have any idea what i should do?
i really appreciate it.

2006-10-31 16:43:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

From a husband to a co=worker:

Husband: hey sexy my new email

Co-worker: thanks for the heads up boo!!

How are you by the way?? Still missing you....guess what?? I got 4 jobs right now...i just got hired for 3 of them yesterday. The most important and I'm most focused on is Loan Consultant at Global Financial & Realty, so if you need anyone to hook you or anyone you know up with a loan (refinance or buying a new home or just trying to cash out) hook your girl up okay!! ;)

Hope your doing fab!! I'm trying to keep busy - as you can see.....and trying to explore better opportunities so I'd love it if you can spread the word!! I'll give you a referral cut - not that you need it,with your fine and rich ***!! ;)

Love and miss you,


Also, she got the new address a day before I did.

2006-10-31 16:43:08 · 21 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

did you get ?? I got a small bag ,then I passed it out , so shareing means careing , let someone else get a tummy ache..

2006-10-31 16:41:52 · 6 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

i have a good netfriend and by no means i meant she is but after she show me her picture, she shouted me idiot and accuses me for saying she is 'ugly' but i never did.

She is a great and understanding friend prior and despite i tried 3 times to remedy our friendship but she doesn't appreciate at all. i thought she was joking but she is serious.

it is a great pity for me to lose a good platonic friendship := (

This is the 1st time i come across such.

Comments or sharing pls.

2006-10-31 16:41:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a few months back i joined this art workshop just for the sake of passing the time. i had my eye on this girl whom i never had the guts to go over and talk to. i recently found out she was a quite a few years younger than me. i know now i would never do anything with her. a few day back we were both one of a few volunteers to paint a mural on the wall of our school. we got to know eachother pretty well that day. throughout the whole day every once and awhile she would come stand by me and start poking me and hitting me with her hip? was she flirting or was it just innocent?

2006-10-31 16:40:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at my girlfriends house and we were in her room, she gets up to go to the bathroom and I happen to see her panties laying on the floor so I thought it would be funny to take off my clothes and put them on and let her walk in on me, just for a laugh. But when she came in she got this wtf look on her face and asked me where I got those. It turns out that they belonged to a friend of hers that she claimed had the crabbas. Is it possible to get the crabbas from wearing some infected underwear? Do I have the crabbas? What are the crabbas anyway? What should I do?

2006-10-31 16:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by E_Soup 5 in Singles & Dating

I met a man not to long ago that I was instantly comfortable with. He seemed to be really comfortable with me also. We became intensely involved. We talked about everything. He was in the final stages of his divorce and he despised his soon to be ex. His house was up for sale and not long after that he found he needed neck surgery. I felt him pulling away but couldn't do anything to stop it. He said in three months we would have all the time in the world. He said he hoped to spend donkey years with me. We haven't spoken since October 6th when he said he felt very very very deeply about me.He said he didn't want to hurt me and in anger I said he already had. He has so much going on in his life. Is there any chance that he loves me and will be back? I have written several e-mails asking if he is done with me or are we through. No answers!!!!

2006-10-31 16:36:15 · 8 answers · asked by e_piphany214 4 in Singles & Dating

Long term friendship

2006-10-31 16:34:52 · 18 answers · asked by klynna 3 in Friends

How do you find the perfect man for you when you dont go out to party or any thing like that. Please some one help me. Give me some suggestions please.

2006-10-31 16:34:33 · 3 answers · asked by Cathy C 2 in Singles & Dating

What should I do?

2006-10-31 16:34:10 · 17 answers · asked by FatPussy MeowMeow 1 in Singles & Dating

pls specify ur age and country too..

thanx

2006-10-31 16:33:03 · 9 answers · asked by kimi, speedy 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this junior at my school, he's really nice and funny and smart. We're both in FFA, but I don't think he knows I exist. He never talks to me, and I'm too shy to talk to him myself, how do I get his attention?

2006-10-31 16:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want to, but don't know how. Can U help me?

2006-10-31 16:31:30 · 12 answers · asked by Just Me 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a Russian girlfriend who seems to feel that kissing should only begin after a long courtship period, if at all. I am wondering just how different Russian and American courtship practices are.

2006-10-31 16:30:20 · 11 answers · asked by drjona 1 in Singles & Dating

pls help me. i am havn a crush on my bro in law. he is the elder bro of my husband. his eldest is in her late teens. he is slim built. i maybe attracted to him physicall(not sure). this crush has been growing with me since i was married to my husband some 12 years ago. i am not sure if he too feels the same way tho i definately look good for my age when compared to his wife. i yearn for more get 2gethers so i tat i can get a chance to see n admire him. i have no intention to break up our families on the other hand i know this crush is going 2 last me long as hubby's siblings r very closely knitted.

2006-10-31 16:29:28 · 22 answers · asked by sagi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a dilemma.

my gal suspects that i distrust her by posing another guy to test her if she might be interested in him.

she also wonder too, i believe, that i flirt with other gals.

i do have other female friends, but i took them as pure platonic friendship and my conversation with them is plain as bore. but they does like my company cos my conversation with them is always clean. perhaps that is why they find refreshing from other guys who seek them for sexual advances.

I like to talk with the gals cos i found that they have relationship problems and i hope that i can help them on this. i enjoy doing this as i know ppl appreciate my listening ear and i do hope they could marry faithful husband and not those who flirt or sweet talk.

how will u feel or react if u are me? gals or guys input much appreciated.

i am looking forward for a marriage with my gal and to be faithful to her and keep to marriage vow is something a cherished dream for me since i was 15, i am now 33. tks.

2006-10-31 16:28:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 16:27:11 · 20 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

Heres the story.... my ex girlfriend broke up with me a year ago. after a few months i met a great girl and we went out for 3 months. then the ex girlfriend started to contact me and wanted me back. i broke up with the new one to see if the old one changed. we dated for 4 months and she screwed me over and cheated on me big time. a few months went by and the other great girl i had wanted to get back together. i have been dating her again and things are better than ever.

the other day i went on the shitty ex's myspace account and she had new pictures of her and her boyfriend (the one she cheated on me with) on there. now she is emailing me and text messaging me to see how i have been and stuff. do i reply back and tell her i have been great and i am dating the good girl again or do i ***** her out and tell her to leave me alone and that she cheated on me?

any help would be greatly appreciated

2006-10-31 16:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by pele3844 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating the same guy for 6+ months. We are both 20 something virgins. We have a very good relationship, he seems to really like me, and I really like him. The other night we doing our usual make out at my apartment before we went to bed. I offered to give him oral sex; he said he did not want it. The next day I asked him about it and he said I surprised him by asking, and that he did not want to do that because it would be demeaning to me. Is it possible that he cares so much that that really is true. What should I do if anything? What would you do?
Please don’t respond with “He’s Gay” I know he is not or “He’s just not into you” because I my self thought that but when I really thought about it, it’s not true either, we have such a good base relationship; I know how he really feels about me.

2006-10-31 16:26:38 · 32 answers · asked by lissapony 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been hanging out with this guy for a couple weeks and today he told me that he thinks I'm getting the wrong impression because he is not ready for a serious relationship. He told me that he really likes me and likes hanging out with me...but he still needs time to recover. Does he honestly feel this way and do you think he may still want a relationship over time? I just dunno what to do now. Please help!!

2006-10-31 16:24:21 · 7 answers · asked by Dewdlebug 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 16:24:11 · 6 answers · asked by Sunny 1 in Friends

GUYS! First of all do you like hugging??

If you initate a hug with a girl, does that mean you feel anything for her??

What about a side hug vs. a frontal hug.

Are there certain girls you would side hug and not hug frontally and vise versa?

A guy I know always hugs me really close and it's always a frontal hug and a good tight hug.....does this mean anything??

Are there different meanings or implications to a hug??

THANKS!

2006-10-31 16:23:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I told you that is a fantastic costume you are wearing.

2006-10-31 16:23:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So the sexual tension is right there and very aggressive. But I believe he wants something more from me like a relationship stuff, but I don't see him as a BF material. This guy is very attractive, very hot and pretty nice, but he has no steady job or even a goal in life. I just don't wanna mess with that--at least not now. I know sex will complicate thing. All I want is a hook-up, but I feel that if he doesn't feel the same way, it will be very hard and awkward when we work together. What do you think?

2006-10-31 16:21:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I didn't get a single trick or treater tonight. Therefore I was wondering if I walked outside, knocked on my door, didn't answer myself then egged my own door do you think that would teach me a lesson?

2006-10-31 16:21:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family