I still get spanked and I just want to know how others get/got it. Stuff like is it private or not, bare or not, what you get spanked with, who does it, how hard, how fast, ect. Like I get it in my room by my mom only, I have to lay on my bed and I get it with a hairbrush on my bare butt. I get popped too many times, but they come fast and kinda hard. I don't bruise or anything and I usually deserve it.
2006-10-31 16:45:29 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I was spanked otk until I was about 8 years old, then it was over the bed or a chair. My dad used his hand when I was little then a leather belt when I got older. Mom used her hand, hairbrush, wooden spoon or a ruler. Almost every spanking I ever got was bare bottom.
2006-11-04 01:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got spanked with my mothers hand, and yes I have to agree I deserved it when I got it.
Never left a mark, she never did it in anger and well I did learn from my mistakes.
I feel there is a fine line in discipline and abuse.
A spanking on the behind is okay when not done in anger/ if you were being hit anywhere else I would be concerned and ask for you to seek support from school, a relative or friends.
I have nerve damage in my hands so I am not able to spank, it wouldn't be fair to my children....I can't feel my strength
We use other methods and they seem to work too. Grounding, writing essays, sentences and loosing the computer,phone and TV.
Best wishes
2006-10-31 18:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a serious question...i think it's awful and makes me feel sad. i didn't get spanked as a child, i got beat with a belt, and anything else my step-dad could get his hands on to use on me and my siblings. he also punched and kicked me at times. i had my first anxiety attack when i was 4 yrs old, and still have an anxiety disorder as an adult...he didn't care who was around when he hit us. i had severe asthma, and he even used to hit me when i couldn't stop coughing.
i believe that parents who hit are bullies who lose their tempers and don't know how to parent in a rational, intelligent, and respectful way. spanking takes away the dignity of a child, and damages their spirit and self-esteem. some kids turn their anger and emotional pain inward, toward themselves, some kids act out with other kids and bully them...that's how they're taught to handle conflict when they don't have a rational parent who disciplines with firm kindness, fairness, and consistency...many parents don't know the difference between punishment and discipline...to discipline means to teach, not beat a kid into submission.
you didn't say how old you are. and if you think you deserve getting a spanking, maybe you are seeking negative attention from your mom because you don't get enough positive attention. i hope you can talk to your mom and tell her how it really makes you feel to be spanked. maybe you can come up with some alternatives to spankings, such as loss of privileges. good luck, i'll be thinking of you.
2006-10-31 17:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 49 and have been spanked by my wife on several occasions. She usually does it in private, tied to a stool or across the bed with hands and feet tied. She has also done it in front of her sister,(she saw me naked one day) and allowed her some quality time with the implements.
As far as what is used, it will always be 3 different belts, 4 different paddles or strap, a wooden paint stirrer, a riding crop,
and a plastic ping pong paddle.
On the several occasions that she paddled me, it was usually 10 to 15 swats with each implement. However when her sister saw me naked, it was 20 with each implement, by each of them.
then they left me tied to the stool, went out for lunch and when they came back they repeated the punishment. Trust me my sister-in-law never saw me naked again
2006-11-02 05:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by slaveboy_43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 57 years old. When I was a kid, I got spanked with a hand or belt (fully clothed). It would kinda hurt, but if my mom was spanking me, I would almost laugh, but not out loud. When I got it, I really deserved it.
2006-10-31 16:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's considered child abuse if you get spanked with an object other than the hand and if it leaves a mark of some kind.
2006-10-31 16:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by ask me ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are better ways then hitting to get a point across. Don't hit your children, talk to them. NOBODY deserves that. Children should be loved and taught right from wrong. Not hurt because they can't fight back.
It's one thing to give a kid a tap on the butt, but using objects to enhance the pain is mean spirited and wrong.
2006-10-31 16:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by wscarpelli@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
huh? if you're talking about being disciplined. well getting hit on the butt with a brush is nothing. trying getting hit with a metal stick, leather belt, fists, hangers, wood stick, basically anything that's laying around. fun stuff~!
2006-10-31 16:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Girl 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hairbrush?! That's it?! my mom used to beat me up. I got beaten with hangers, cords, belts, bare hand, broom, spoons, pots, anything that woman got her hands on. I deserve it too. Oh well, i turned out good. I'm 20 soon to be 21, with my own place, own car, full time student, full time job, engaged, no kids, no STDs! The beatens worked!
2006-10-31 16:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Juicy 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
i spank my self with a wooden spoon, spatula, varies size magnifying glasses, ect.
2006-11-03 08:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by hyper chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋