Wait 2 years
2006-10-31 16:47:12
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answered by LEXL0XTER 2
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I got married at 17 and had a child, me and my husband are still together after 10 years. DO NOT DO IT. You are too young and so is your BF. You are going to have a child-so goodbye to the freedom that you will NEVER experience. Love is easy, marriage is hard. Either you will end up divorced, or you will stay and suffer alot of pain that is going to come, by you marrying with no life experience, and the sense of a teenager. Even if you are ready, I can promise you that an 18 year old male is not ready/ I didnt listen and neither will you, but you did ask. There will not be a fairytale ending, so I definitely wouldnt be trying to speed up the process.
2006-10-31 18:10:21
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answered by milkmansbaby 3
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Speed up the process? I wish i could slow it down for you.. Don't be stupid; what your feeling is not love, your much to young to even understand what love is. what you are feeling is affection to attention. I promise; you would not marry the same person or the same personality at age 25 as you would today.. Wait; experience life, determine what love is and most of all; determine who you are and what you really want in life. As for your mother; she has not said anything because she knows you and figures you'll probably run away, she is hoping your feeling will change before you act on them. Don't destroy your life. Wait, Wait, Wait!
2006-10-31 16:58:59
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answered by denfasr 4
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No matter your circumstance, legally you are a MINOR. He is not. Which could be a very large problem for him.
Who will be supporting you and your child? Will you be finishing school?
I believe marriage at this point should be the very last thing on your agenda. Love quickly fades, when one is smacked with reality. Please DONT consider marriage, until you are both mature enough to provide this child with a proper home with some form of financial security.
You and your mom should have had a serious conversation 2 years ago.
2006-10-31 16:57:05
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answered by iyamacog 7
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I think you should wait. Finally, you will have to make your own decision, but you're too young to be married. You still don't have much experience with the world, and you might see it different 5 years from now, at your age, you grow too fast mentally, and might find out that he isn't really the guy for you (or you find out that he is ;), but in that case you're more sure about it).
2006-10-31 16:49:52
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answered by Roberto 7
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Whatever happened to your boyfriend being 19 and you two being together for a year and a half? Whatever happened to you just losing a baby and him wanting you to get pregnant again? How do you magically become 5 months pregnant, your boyfriend gets younger, and the length of your relationship get shorter in just 3 days????? SOUNDS LIKE A FREAKING MIRACLE. Get your stories straight!!!!!!!
2006-10-31 17:18:19
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answered by ;-) 2
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wait!!! you have all the time in the world. never get married just because you are prego. you dont need to be married to raise a child. please think about this. when i was younger i use to babysit for a couple and they married just because of their oldest daughter crissy. they fought like cats and dogs and most of the time in front of me and the kids. needless to say it ended in a bitter divorce and the kids were left in a worse off state than they woudl of been if they just were raise by their parents without the whole marriage thing.
2006-10-31 16:59:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Wait for 1 or 2 yrs. don't just make rust decision just because u pregnant. You be happy if your bf want to be responsible for you and the baby. but you can ask him to wait a bit. your mum can look after the baby. then you can plan for your wedding with him.
2006-10-31 17:07:38
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answered by cooomas 2
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Wait till you are 18
2006-11-01 03:25:33
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answered by daveyboyone 5
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Thatr is the dumbest idea i have heard all night. Getting married so young, even though you are pregnant will only end up in divorce.
2006-10-31 16:49:37
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answered by Val 6
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