From a husband to a co=worker:
Husband: hey sexy my new email
Co-worker: thanks for the heads up boo!!
How are you by the way?? Still missing you....guess what?? I got 4 jobs right now...i just got hired for 3 of them yesterday. The most important and I'm most focused on is Loan Consultant at Global Financial & Realty, so if you need anyone to hook you or anyone you know up with a loan (refinance or buying a new home or just trying to cash out) hook your girl up okay!! ;)
Hope your doing fab!! I'm trying to keep busy - as you can see.....and trying to explore better opportunities so I'd love it if you can spread the word!! I'll give you a referral cut - not that you need it,with your fine and rich ***!! ;)
Love and miss you,
Also, she got the new address a day before I did.
2006-10-31 16:43:08 · 21 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can tell u that it's inappropriate and overly flirtatious.
2006-10-31 16:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the topic of the e-mail is apporpriate clearly they are discussing work issues but the cute little nick names and the love and miss you at the end, and all the extras I think are un appropriate let alone unessessary! The fact that she had the address before you doesn't say much except he gave it to her and could have forgotten to give it to you the same day. I would talk to him about it and tell him that the nick names and cute e-mails need to stop, at the same time I would e mail her and tell her that it needs to stop as well!
2006-10-31 16:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All he said was, "hey sexy my new email" she said the rest. I have read others and some said, "he said I miss you two times" all he really said was, "hey sexy.....". She was the one saying, "I miss you", Called him "boo", and that he is "fine and rich", and ended it with "love and miss you". I think she is the one flirting, possible to get his business or so he will give her some contacts. Just let him know you have read this and see what he says. I don't think any one of us can give you the necessary advice without more information on his side of it.
2006-10-31 17:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jan G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can go both ways. I have this co-worker who I always refer to as "suga" ie. sugar, and he has a girlfriend not to mention that even though I call him that there is no interest on that level at all. I have had a friend since 9th grade who is married but has told me he loved me based on the fact that he values our friendship. He was a babe magnet in school and I may say to him "you know you look good" or "you know all the girls wanted some of that" but in no way in over 10 years have I looked at him in a sexual way. As for her getting the address before you men don't think like we do. You want him to say I am considerate I love my girlfriend and no one/women will get the address before my baby, but the reality of it is that requires to much thought on a mans part. If he got the address, and he knew he wanted to give it to her, and he just so happened to talk to her before he talked to you then she got it first.
The bottom line is this can go either way. Do you trust and love him to "know your man" to a point where you don't have to worry? If not then don't attack him but sit him down, admit you may be being a little paranoid, then explain to him how this situation made you feel. If he is understanding and try to explain/fix it then you have no worries if he blows his top and blame you then you need to be worried. Good luck.
2006-10-31 16:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't prove anything, but it is kinda overly familiar [all the 'hey sexy' and 'boo' stuff... and that "love and miss you" part]
More importantly, if it makes YOU uncomfortable - as it clearly does, then it's a problem no matter what kind of relationship your husband and this chick have... (where there's smoke there's fire)
2006-10-31 16:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like it could be major flirting or serious affair, either way, highly inappropriate (to answer your question).
I think it's time to question your relationship. Have you guys been on good terms lately? You should definitely ask him about it before it escalates or you drive yourself crazy wondering what's going on. BTW, it's not snooping if you're acting on feelings of suspicion when reading his email.
2006-10-31 16:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by s2bx04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask why are you looking at his email? Do you have other reasons to be suspicious? Are there other things going on?
Regardless, the best thing to do is just to ask him directly about what's going on. If you don't, then you'll just wonder about it and your trust in him will never be the same again. Just talk to him and you'll know more about the truth.
2006-10-31 17:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sending a thoughtful card will teach that you cared adequate to take the time to go out, %. in basic terms the right card for her. i imagine that'd make her experience alot more effective particular and it really is going to be a card that she will save for destiny years to keep in mind. She sounds like an extremely effective neighbor....we want more effective acquaintances like her!!!!!
2016-12-05 10:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by deparvine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms: This husband is on the hunt !!! He is "painting himself up" to come across as rich and successful. When a guy calls a girl "sexy" he is on the prowl .. better believe it ! The e-mail; well .... a dead give away of his intentions . Poor girl who is stuck with him ... what a flake !!!
2006-10-31 16:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don' read to much into it. To me it sounds purely Platonic not sexual. I usually send business contacts email changes first. I send changes to family and friends second.
2006-10-31 16:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Professor Chitlin 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It sounds a little over friendly, but largely as though they are just mucking around. I wouldn't stress about it too much, or if it's playing on your mind just talk to him about it.
2006-10-31 16:47:27 · answer #11 · answered by bevo82 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋