I love her she is great.. but I just met her family and apperently they do not think I am good enough for her.. what can I do? Some body told me to break up with her but I love her! and she loves me too! I can not do that... and I am more then sure her family hates me by the way they talk to me and things they say also, trying to get their daughter with another guy..... I really need a good answer please !!!!!
2006-10-31 15:00:29 · 11 answers · asked by good guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she adores you as much as you seem to adore her, then that is important. That doesn't make relations easy with her parents though. But what is important is that she loves you enough to stand up for her relationship with you. If you are already getting that from her then that's a good step. Maybe over time they will treat you better. It could mean that they are protective of her. Maybe the both of you could talk about this and include her parents. This might be a good way develop a better relationship with them.
2006-10-31 15:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this is just what parents do!. If you really like her and she treats you right they should come round and realize that she makes you happy. You may even encourage her to make more of her self too. I met my husband when I was 19 and he had "done time" also. My Mum and Dad were mortified! but we got on so well and he showed me a massive amount of affection and care and treated me very well. He changed dramatically for the good and completely settled down. My parents realized how happy he made me and that he was making such an effort. We have been together for 8 years and married for 5 and things are great. Sometimes people are not ideal but meeting someone will change them. I think your girlfirend probably needs some stability in her life and the answer might be you. Good Luck
2016-05-22 23:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to listen to her family if you too love each other than you should be together, but if your girlfriend family means alot to her maybe you should try and talk to them and make them understand that your a good guy and that you love there daughter. well hopefully this helps
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2006-10-31 15:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever read Romeo and Juliet? You are in the same situation. You need to win her family over. Talk to them about your plans for the future and how you will take care of their daughter. How old is she? If she is 18, she doesn't need their permisssion to see you.
2006-10-31 15:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing first your girlfriend needs to put her family in their place.that sounds like they are running her life.you shouldn't break up with your girl because of her family.i've had the same problem.just take my advice dude.i've beem married 2yrs and i'm still not close to my husbands family.
2006-10-31 15:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the family or what they think long as you two love each other.
2006-10-31 15:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If her family don't want you around and you are a minor, just stay away. If it is meant to be, it will be.
2006-10-31 15:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first see whether the girl is also serious or not then do something that her family has to accept u
2006-10-31 15:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by Davinder S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your girl that you are tired of it and you will not tolerate the abuse and she needs to do something about it. and then the next time they disrespect you speak up for your self in a respectful way
2006-10-31 15:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, just be satisfied that her family hates you, but you are boning their daughter!!!
2006-10-31 15:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋