ok im dateing this guy and i think he wants to take the relation ship to the next level. im not sure i want to yet. wat do you think i should do? do think i should take the risk?
2006-10-31 15:04:36 · 25 answers · asked by lil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do what ur heart says
2006-10-31 15:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by pistoluser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking complete strangers on the internet then I assume you are doubting it, so DO NOT TAKE THE RISK!!!! If he sticks around and waits with you, he really likes you, if not you got off luckey, because he probably would dump you right after anyway!
2006-10-31 15:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Shazzam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say do what you feel is right, but in this case if you yourself isnt ready then the choice is not up to him, it is up to both of you when the time is right. So tell him up front that you dont feel ready yet and to give you more time, he should understand, if not, then dump him because he will only cause problems later on TRUST me.
2006-10-31 15:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the next level? Sex,marriage,kids?How long have you two been dating?I think you would get a better answer if you give us more details.
2006-10-31 15:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this? You expect someone else to decide things for you? And what exactly is "the next level"?
Figure out what you want and go do it.
2006-11-02 14:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, feel like hes honest and caring..... take the risk. Sometimes, you cant get the fruit if you dont go out on the limb
2006-10-31 15:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, tell him that you want to keep the relationship at the level it is at now. If you end up feeling like he does after a while, then go for it, if not, then reconsider your relationship.
2006-10-31 15:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is the next level, having sex or going for a marriage? both indeed depends on how close u r with him and how much u love each other, n trust as well...
2006-10-31 15:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by musa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't sound confident at all. if you don't feel right about it, NO. Also....i think you shouldn't take it to the next level until you have a real committment. like a wedding band.
2006-10-31 15:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is the nect level possibly hurtgul and are you ready an do you think they will be there for you in the morning?
2006-10-31 15:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by Bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you to take the risk, but I can't tell you how to think; you obviously are a little scard, is the guy ugly and a bad fccuk!!
2006-10-31 15:07:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋