I have been with a few guys in my lifetime, and during it all I don't believe I have ever had an orgasm. Sure the sex was great and felt good, but the thing that has been described as an orgasm to me has never happened. I have tried to get off by myself with my fingers or a vibrator, but that has not helped either. It can't just be the man because more than one has tried, and after awhile the man gets annoyed that I don't get off. Is there something wrong with me?
2006-10-31 14:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by Mia Anne *6.6.09* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try more by yourself. It won't happen with a guy if you can't do it alone while you're relaxed. Sometimes the guy just makes you more concious and pressured to get off and then you may feel turned off or uptight. And don't listen to those other guys /idiots that said you may have had one and not know. YOU WILL KNOW!!!!! A female's orgasm is more intense than a mans and MUCH better for longer. Just try it more by yourself and maybe watch a porn or something that will turn you on. Don't watch TV or have the radio on. And also if you are on medication like antidepressants (SSRI's) that will delay the orgasm or make it close to impossible. Good Luck!!
2006-10-31 15:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a patient man - and one with experience. I never had one until I started dating my husband. I didn't even know I was not having one...until I did. By our second time (the first was rushed) I had one. Maybe that's why I married him..don't know, but needless to say sex has never been a problem in our marriage.
2006-10-31 14:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women need foreplay. Some a little, some alot. Your mate should be patient. Don't be afraid to express what you like and don't. Set the mood. Try food,candles, wine, or music.
2006-10-31 14:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by moose on the loose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No some are hard to have and orgasm,you need to relax,you are to tense,relax and use your vibrator do what feels good try it on the clit its self.
2006-10-31 14:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get on top of a guy and relax!! Man...I feel so bad for you. You don't know what you're missing!! When you're on top, you can control where he penitrates and how. You just really have to know your body and what you like. Try oral stimulation also...this will help out!!
2006-10-31 14:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a past memory that has made it harder for you to orgasm. If you want to discuss it in email, feel free to write.
2006-10-31 15:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possiblly as there are conditions tha can be medical so it would be good to get referred to soemone by your GP. Some guys though are uneducated in plesing the lady properly and also it doesn't ever hurt to use some KY jelly or similar as well
2006-10-31 14:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a doctor.some women never get the G spot,so,they never have an orgasm.They enjoy to have sex,of course,yes.Good question.Good luck.
2006-10-31 14:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get with someone a little older than you they may know a thing or 2 in order to help you out ......like me
2006-10-31 14:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u probably have had one they r probably mild
get with someone good and have three or four and ull get the feeling
2006-10-31 14:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by rdcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋