I love my boyfriend but there is this guy who is extremely attractive but 8 years younger than I. My boyfriend is also younger but only by 3 years. I love my b/f very much but he seem to be torned between myself and his ex girlfriend. I have been holding on trying to make my relationship work because I know all relationships have their ups and downs. The guy who is persistent in asking me out is aware I have a b/f and I told him I don't cheat. I am however very attracted to this guy who is 29. I am concerned that he is only interested in a sexual relationship. He is Greek and never been with a black woman I am assuming. He also wants kids, I don't. My b/f is Puerto Rican and I have to say I love him. My heart say stay in it but I am worried if I snooze I might lose out on something worthwhile. What should I do?
2006-10-31 14:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people who are not reading everything is not understanding what I was trying to get across. I don't cheat and I have no intentions on cheating on my b/f EVER! I was asking should I end my rocky relationship and take a chance with the other guy!
2006-10-31 15:08:10 · update #1
The easiest thing to do is to think about the cons and the pros that will generate as a result of the two different relationships.
I think that what your boyfriend really feels for you is fondness not love.
Also; remember that there's a difference between sex and love.
I can only give you advices because you have to decide for yourself. Only you can make a decision that could change your life abruptly.
2006-10-31 15:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mark P. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your LOVE.
The other guy just need some support and that u r giving him, that's y he is coming close to you. Indulge but not that much that u lose your LOVE.
Give that guy the mental support and make him feel that you are there only coz u don't let him live 'alone in the atlantic'.
Ask him that is his x g/f is worried about what happened to him??if yes then they should talk to sort out the misunderstanding. And if no then y he is making his life Hell.
And one more thing ! Bware. Don't do anything which make u feel that u have done something wrong with your b/f.
Bye n take care.
have a wonderful life and trust on GOD.
2006-10-31 23:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by natkhat_nit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with what you have.....the grass is NOT greener on the other side of the fence.
great that you think the other guy is handsome but remember....looks don't last but a day or a week. we all get old, we all get ugly, we all get saggy......past looks could you handle being w/ the guy?
where your bf you already have love....that feeling AFTER the effects of, "wow, hot, handsome, etc" are over.
love is for lifetime....lust is but for tonight.
2006-10-31 22:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have cheating on you mind means you want to,and that would make you a very low person,so think hard about be for you do it,people get hurt badly over cheating.
2006-10-31 22:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen to your heart. but if you current bf is torn between his x sounds like you might have trouble down the line anyway
2006-10-31 22:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your bf stick it out and try to make it work the other guy probably just wants sex.
2006-10-31 22:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always taught this, "if you are unsure about what to do, don't do anything". Anyway, good luck with whatever decision you make.
2006-10-31 22:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hve sex with ur bf and ask if he loves u or not..... tell da truth
2006-10-31 22:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by dominic c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be faithful
2006-10-31 23:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋