Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

the love of my life broke up with me im still crying and know his moving on... but i have hope that he'll return so with that hope im living.... but now my best mate and ex asked me to marry him... he states he'd do anything for me and that he has always loved me... im so sad... i want my other man not this.... what should i do... my current one broke up with me with no important reason his been treating me very bad... but he has the lifestyle i crave.. but my best mate is a lot sweeter tender and i know he would really do anything for me, but he has not strong background...should i settle down or live with my hope that the other will come back??

2006-10-26 05:28:38 · 19 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 05:28:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my friends and I were planning a crazy Halloween. We were going to get some vokda and southern comfort. All of a sudden one of our friends gets back into town, he tells my best friend that drinking is wrong, and against god, and she shouldn't do it, and tells her all this bullshit. He used to have a drinking problem, and went to a holy roller rehab for 2 years, he's the one with a problem. Now, she isn't going to drink, but doesn't care if I do, we had this big night planned and I know its going to get ruined if I drink and I am around these ignorant people. Should I even bother, or make other plans? I love hanging out with these people, but its Halloween, I mean c'mon!

2006-10-26 05:28:24 · 9 answers · asked by Fran Y 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 05:27:58 · 10 answers · asked by lora b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm wonder from all the verbal, emotional, abuse..My husband will realize what he did wrong to me , his stepson and his babygirl..We are now going thru divorce because he said i left him.. But the last night we were together he kick me out. So now our apartment is lonely and he went back living with his mother and father cuz he is mom's boy i'm staying with my parents too with the children. But what is goingthru my head is I WONDER IF HE WILL REALIZE what he did, how much pain he cause I feel he loves 2 see me pain. because i know i can see a smile on him.. But the question is MAN like this will they ever come to realize soon or never.. cause now is hard for me to believe what a selfish bastard he is for doing all this stuff to me.. I'am hurt and sad, but mostly mad because i did all my best in the marriage and he took advantage of me thru all the marriage.. and i know everyone tells me i'm better off without him.. he was no good husband or father..But i just feel sad how he ends this

2006-10-26 05:27:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 31 years old and my wife is 24. We have 4 children with twins. Have been married for 6 yrs.

My wife has 3 sisters and a brother. One of the sisters and brother are married. My other two sister in laws are 17 & 15 yrs and they have been living with us for the past six years.
I treat my two sister in laws as my own daughters and they call me dad and I'm fine with that. My wife's parents died when they were 3 & 5 yrs. They've been living with us for 6 yrs and they have called me dad all this time. My wife's happy about it and says I'm great.

I treat them like my own daughters from my heart and have done everything to them including all expenses. I've bought two houses for them, for their marriage. They say that I am like their own dad and kiss me.When I married they were 9 & 11 and from then they have been kissing me Is it okay for them to kiss me in a FATHER DAUGHTER WAY ONLY on the cheek and calling me dad? My wife says she's happy when they kiss me and treat me like a dad

2006-10-26 05:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

We were basically catching up on old things and tellin each other how life was when we weren't talking. Its been about 5 years since I've seen this person and i'd really like to know how he's doing. Can someone explain what this dream means?!?!?

2006-10-26 05:27:11 · 2 answers · asked by juspeachez 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need help on geting guys to notice me. I feel like some times i'm invisable. Can you guys help me?

2006-10-26 05:27:06 · 4 answers · asked by peaches n cream 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my boyfriend 5 months and although his mum and dad are really nice, i always feel really uncomfortable around his dad! sometimes i get the feeling he doesnt like me and then other times i think he does, what should i do?

2006-10-26 05:26:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 05:25:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To my boyfriend, that I think he is truly my one and only, and that I truly do want to be with him the rest of my life, and I really do love him with all my heart. So....here's a little background, we've been together about 7 years, with a six month break up. We've been back together for the last 10 months....and I still know he has trust issues, and doesn't fully think I'm faithful to him (we broke up cuz I cheated) well, he's been outta town since last night, and I'm supposed to go meet him up there tomorrow afternoon. I was thinking I wanted to get him a ring, nothing fancy just a band, and have the inside engraved with "I promise" and give it to him as my promise to him, that he's my one and only. What do you all think? Will he like it? Would you like it if your gf did something like that? Just wondering. Thanks all.

2006-10-26 05:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by StonerChick 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do i just shut my mouth and be a shoulder for her to lean on instead of WRINGING her neck for doing things SHE knows are wrong for her and her family?

2006-10-26 05:24:25 · 11 answers · asked by Jep 3 in Family

2006-10-26 05:22:55 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

protocol? Do you email for awhile, do you talk on the phone, do you meet in public? We have been emailing lots back and forth. Will he ever ask me out?

2006-10-26 05:22:41 · 9 answers · asked by catzrme 5 in Singles & Dating

people were doing crank and brought it over to my house(my son was under a year old at the time) i told them to get the hell out they said its not child endangerment a couple months passed and they lost their kids cause they got caught either making it or possesion of it!!! they are STILL saying its NOT child endangerment i was like your a moron lol!

2006-10-26 05:22:24 · 9 answers · asked by lita 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this lad that i know (hes 13) and he always starts arguments over nothing and calls you for no reason,he starts calling me a slag when i havent done anything and im not a slag ive never slept with anyone in my life im 14, sometimes i ahte him but when im his friend hes alright its just when he turns i really hate him, but he stirs crap all the time and starts telling people i called them and most people believe him, i dont know why he does it though, ive tried telling him what people think of him when he acts like this but he doesnt seem to take any notice does anyone else have any ideas of what i could do, he makes me really depressed and angry???

2006-10-26 05:22:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How can I get sweet revenge? I know they say it's better served cold but that's ot good enough for me.... I want it now!!

2006-10-26 05:21:14 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend is cool, but ever since we broke up he's been following the wrong crowd. He's using drugs now, cutting class,and it seems that no one can get throuhg to him. I tried to help him, but all he does is push away. I talk to him from time to time, but when I bring up his situation he doen't want to talk about it. Should I just leave him alone and let him figure it out for himself of should I continue and try to help him?

2006-10-26 05:21:13 · 12 answers · asked by Chocolate Chip 1 in Friends

This is the situation(s). I have a history of being head over heals for people and then one day, out of nowhere, not wanting them anymore. It happened again this morning. I was in love with this guy! I guess I thought. I couldn't get enough of him, then this morning, I don't want him anymore! Nothing has changed between us..nothing. What is wrong with me? Why do I keep doing this? Do I need to see a psychiatrist?

2006-10-26 05:21:09 · 12 answers · asked by michellewho11582 2 in Singles & Dating

if a boy doesnt call his gf for 5 months because his friends are every minute telling false wrong things about his gf n he tells his gf tht he doesnt believe her in this life...and keeps sending irritating quarreling mesgs at times and sweets mesgs also at times. he looks at her passionately from a distance but sends quarreling mesgs immediately. he has doubts tht she is involved with somone, and also tht he cant marry her. does he ever feel for her??? does he love her ? but he hasnt called for so long...does it mean "the end"??? what should the girl do...as she tried to clarify, but he didnt believe. she told this cell no isnt her's...even then he mesgd. she told him she doesnt hav any feelings for him n doesnt miss her even then he somthimes mesgs. what is this ??? now the girl is silent n doesnt reply any mesg. does it mean end???

2006-10-26 05:20:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was in the Army and lived in Enterprise, Al for awhile.

2006-10-26 05:20:32 · 1 answers · asked by Mike . 1 in Friends

okay well should i be friends with the guy that i just got out of a relashonship with he told me that we were just giong to be friends for now and i want to be freinds with him but i dont know if thats a good thing to do!! and him telling me that he just wants to be friends for now do you think anything will happen!!! should i be friends with him? and what dose he mean by we will just be friends for now!!

2006-10-26 05:19:55 · 4 answers · asked by brit 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom has a brain tumor and she is having brain surgrey in Jan.And im so scared cause i fear she may not make it out of the OR and that scares me cuz i wanna see my mom live along time so she can see her kids get married and see her grandkids grow up.The sad part is my mom is only 37 and she has alot of medical problems what do i do?

2006-10-26 05:18:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he is a really kind, caring and he really into me... we had a lot in common but i just dont like him. what should i do?? i really dont want to hurt his feeling...

2006-10-26 05:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by Leo 2 in Singles & Dating

when u ask something and they ignore what u say

2006-10-26 05:18:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband cheated on me about 2 months ago with a friend of minefor 2 months, I was totally clueless. I was going to her house with my 2 year old son and husband everyday. We talked and I desided to stay with him. He did admit what he did was wrong but I know personally I pushed him away for a long time. I was always yelling at him and took him for granted. We stopped sleeping together. I would threaten divorcing him numerous times out of anger. He thought I was divorcing him. I admit I was wrong also. He told me everything and explained that he had no thought process throughout it all. He never thought of what he was losing. Afte the fact now, he has thought about it and tells me he knows what he did was wrong. He said, you gave me a second chance and I won't screw this up again. He knows if he does it again, there won't be another chance.I gave him the chance to leave without custody problems and he stayed. Is once a cheater always a cheater true?

2006-10-26 05:18:15 · 29 answers · asked by little_effin_sunshine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have met many married men who say they are looking... why don't they say they are dirty filthy bastards who are emotionally dead, they gave up on their wives, they are not serious grown men, they are players.. etc. then they want to meet me, a single free spirit.. like how deep is married and looking, looking for what people?

2006-10-26 05:17:37 · 14 answers · asked by Jyssi Leeann 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Considering that women are highly social creatures and that they are going to have social connections. Anybody else think it makes your chances of finding a women to stay married to without the influence of the gender, ________if not impossible, these days?

2006-10-26 05:17:36 · 4 answers · asked by lightlytread 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 05:17:25 · 2 answers · asked by chelsey 1 in Friends

Why post all the silly answers,
when the person who ask needs
a sensible answer to their question ?
Is it worth 2 points ?

2006-10-26 05:16:32 · 10 answers · asked by eviechatter 6 in Friends