2006-10-26 05:25:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi I'm Peta and I'm the Flirt Coach. First you have to be sure that you ARE ready. I saw a relationship coaching client yesterday who admitted that she wasn't sure that she was ready. She didn't want to give up her freedom. This is common with singles. So be sure you ARE ready for a new life, to open, commit, share and be vulnerable to someone else and to devote TIME to making it work Secondly you have to know what you want.
We all bandy about words like 'committed' 'caring' 'generous'. But what do they mean to you? How will you know someone is caring? What kinds of things will they be doing? Make it specific to you? What's caring to your mates might not be the same for you.
Next you have to know what makes you tick. What do you value most? Is it integrity, being able to laugh at yourself, or a number of other things? Be sure about you.
Then you have to ask yourself 'What do you want your perfect mate or 'the one' to expect of you? The answer is all the qualities you LOVE about YOU and don't want to change
If you're really committed to finding someone you've got to take action... Let go of the NEED.. Stop whining about 'why haven't I yet' and love your life now. Know that the one is not someone to fix your life.. it's someone to enhance it.
Relationships do NOT make your life work. A great relationship with 'the one' makes a life that already works better. If your life isn't great right now, get to work on that first.
And lastly, on a lighter note... make sure you're presentable, and that you portray yourself as you are... even if you do eat lots of garlic... at least make sure you freshen your breath with mints. Trebor are the most popular and it's a sure fire way to connect with someone - laughingly say.. this is not a hint, it's a flirt.. 'do you want a mint?
The flirtcoach
http://www.flirtzone.com
2006-10-27 03:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by flirtcoach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look between the 0 and the 2
2006-10-26 12:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be a bit of a lad, playing about thinking i was going to always be the single guy when everyone around me was coupled up and then one day i just met her, the woman of my dreams. at the time i didn't realise, it's not always love at first sight. but after a short time i knew... we've been together over 2 years now and very happy. to sum it up... get out there and meet as many people you can and the law of averages will do the rest
2006-10-26 12:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Crumble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abaracadabra or the spin a bottle method...
2006-10-26 12:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by Hacker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hated my hubby when i 1st met him i gave him my number then i wouldnt answer his calls for weeks but then i went to another club miles away from first meeting place with him and guess wot he was there that time i did answer his call 6 years later now married with a baby so i say if its ment to be its ment to be xx
2006-10-26 17:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by LISA T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love of my life turned out to be my best friend! We were friends for 10 years and finally realized we are soul mates. Maybe one of your close friend can be the one for you!?
2006-10-26 12:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by sunflower222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stopped looking and i found the one it took me 16yrs to find him but i've got him now
2006-10-26 12:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no secret it will just happen dont look for it what is for you wont go past you
2006-10-26 12:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by that girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a secret
2006-10-26 12:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Steve R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the stuff you like to do -- theater, politics, play music in a band, whatever. you'll meet people who like the same stuff you do, and you'll eventually meet the one.
2006-10-26 12:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by movielovingirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋