My mom has a brain tumor and she is having brain surgrey in Jan.And im so scared cause i fear she may not make it out of the OR and that scares me cuz i wanna see my mom live along time so she can see her kids get married and see her grandkids grow up.The sad part is my mom is only 37 and she has alot of medical problems what do i do?
2006-10-26 05:18:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU NEED SUPPORT!!! Honey, join support groups, confide in your close friends, whatever you do - Don't try and carry this emotional burden yourself. Be strong and you have my prayers.
2006-10-26 05:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, I wont tell you to try not to worry because that would be absurd. I wish I could tell you your mom will be okay. All I can tell you is that you are in the middle of a learning lesson right now. You may not understand that for a while, but you are learning to deal with stress. You may have to learn to deal with consequences you aren't wanting to deal with. Try to find the peace inside you and realize the good that will become in the long run. I know it's just words, but I am the mother of two children ages 18 and 19 now who were born with a terminal illness and I watch them progress, knowing that if we live out our normal lives, they will die before me, and I know now that we can't let these things take control o our lives. We just have to make the most of each day and appreciate the good, even the small things, and figure out the lessons that we are learning. Life is still good for you. This is a challenge you are going through. Show your mom how strong you are and help her in every way you can. That will help you to feel better for yourself and find your peace inside. Stay strong sweetie. xoxo
2006-10-26 05:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear what u & ur mom r facing & to be so young. My heart truly goes out to you & ur family.
There is some consuling I'm sure you can seek thru the hospital
or church....
Say your prayers & be there everyday with your mom-She'll need you for her stength & her hope. Tell her your dreams & hopes & things you've never said but always wanted to. If she's able- do something u's have always wanted to.Try to take things one moment at a time....each moment is more presious than the next.
Do you have other family? Talk to them, share with them. Talk to us also...we're here.
Find out about as much as u can with whats going on medically-sometimes a better understanding can make for a better acceptance of whatever may come.
Good Luck & Godspeed
2006-10-26 05:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by puddee_catz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that.... Just pray for her and have faith that your prayer will be answer. Also give her all the love you can possible give, knowing that she has wonderful kids such as yourself will make all the difference in the world to her when she is in the OR.
I'll say a prayer for you and your family.
2006-10-26 05:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by agata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray sweetie. That is all you can do at this point. Just keep praying and enjoy your time with your mom too. Make everyday special with her. God Bless You.
2006-10-26 05:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is be supportive to your mom and your family. their may be a risk to it but its a risk your gonna have to take if your mum is to get better. tell your mom your fears she'll understand. the only one who can give you great advice is your mom, because she's the one going through it. god bless you and you family and your mom for going through this painful time.
2006-10-26 05:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's out of your hands at this point. You can hope for the best, spend some extra time with her and tell her that you love her. Best to you and your Mom.
2006-10-26 05:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear i think its better to concentrate about your today's work rather than about still un-born tomorry. Just keep the faith on the god that you are praying on. Rest is inevitible.
2006-10-26 05:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by nicke_knight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray for her
spend time together
enjoy her presents
be supportive
make sure you let her know you love her dearly and always will ..
she will be in my prayers.....
2006-10-26 05:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by tee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong and pray. I am sure she will be ok. Just stay by her side and spend as much time with her as you can. Hang in there.
2006-10-26 05:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋