Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

I need help with this one. There is this guy that I work with. Im 25, he is 42. He has liked me for some time and we have become really good friends. Last night he told me that he thinks that we are beyond friends but not qutie "together". His son is 3 years younger than me. My parents had a huge age difference as well that doesnt seem weird to me or my family. I know that I shouldnt care about what others think but I would like to have a family someday.... Im not sure what to think so any advice would help. Im a full time student that is moving soon and we also work together!! Should I just let it go or try and have a relationship...... Im so confused What would you think if you saw a couple that had a 17 year age difference, or would you do it yourself if you cared for that person???

2006-10-26 04:53:29 · 45 answers · asked by Miss C 2 in Singles & Dating

well i have been with this guy for 5 years and every thing is great and all, but last night he took me out to eat,(keep in mind , that im bearly going to be 18 in a few months) ive been with this guys ever since middle school. last night was great, unill he poped the question, he aske me to marrie him. i thought i loved him, but when he asked me last night i thought about every thing and now im not even suer about how i feel.

2006-10-26 04:53:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think we are ment to be with someone and thats its all pre planned or just random? Some people feel so familiar, like you have known the forever even when you meet them for the first time.

2006-10-26 04:52:48 · 4 answers · asked by poppyspock 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't mean generic advice to an 18 year old. I mean advice specific to your experience. And no superbowl winner is the Cowboys or Buy Microsoft stock answers please!

2006-10-26 04:52:22 · 25 answers · asked by Aeyna D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is there a moment when you should or how will i know when the time is right?

2006-10-26 04:52:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have liked my crush for 4 years now we live next door to each other he smiles at me all da time even wen im at my house he looks at me and chats 2 me on msn and helps me with homework and revision hes diffrent with my friends he kind of snaps at them but he talks calm to me all the time and always will talk to me and he wont always talk to other female friends like he does me plz help

2006-10-26 04:51:55 · 10 answers · asked by attitude123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ill make this short and sweet. this guy was making fun of my face saying i looked liek a man.(i do wax my face fryi like most girls but i got caught up in stuff and frogot thsi week.) so neway my guy friend who was present when this guy said this just said he noticed that but diidnt wanna say anything. neway i started mouthing off 2 my guy friend and telling him that i 4got 2 wax and alot of girls do that,neway he finally said"well, i noticed ur legs are nice and smooth, and i was wondering why ur favce and arms aren't, but i didn't wanna ask." (my arms are kinda harity) this guy has already told me like 3 or 4 times be4 he thought i was beautiful so i blew up in his face thikning he thought i was ugly. we had plans to go 2 a museum this weekend,now idk if ill be self concsience round him or not. I honestly think he was trying 2 help me out,but idk. my q is should we still go 2 the art museum or not? do u think he thinks im ugly?
im gunna go wax myself while i wait for answers,lol.

2006-10-26 04:51:44 · 5 answers · asked by thrashthemic 1 in Friends

We've Been Goin Out For About 3 Weeks. I Dont Know How To Tell Her I Have A Fetish And Dont Know How To Let Her Know I Have One. I've Known Her For About 5 Years. If She Didn't Like Things Like That I'd Be Cool With It, I LIKE Her Feet, They're Cute And Everything BUt I LOVE Her. I Just Dont Know How To Confront Her About My Fetish.

2006-10-26 04:51:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is a good size carrot?
is proposing in a hot air balloon ride romantic

2006-10-26 04:51:28 · 13 answers · asked by HUSTLER 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 04:51:10 · 33 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok here is the thing I am married andhave been for nearly 13 years I have always loved my wife and have remained faithful. Then about a year ago she fell for another guy. but after I found out and her and I talked I gave her a choice to leave or stay she choose to stay. I have poured my heart out to her and have changed things about myself that I knew needed to changed to make things work and she did the same. The guy she had feel for kept his distance and said that he was happy that she was commited to makeing things work with her and I. I then found something that basically broke the line of honesty and trust in a message he left her talking about how hard it is for him not to stop by and see her and to say certain things. all along I have fought to prove to her my love and she has told me that she loves me then there are times she seems distant I question it and she gets upset with me and then finally a month ago she said she still has feelings for him and she didn't know what she

2006-10-26 04:50:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He´s only 10. I consider it can cause him harm and fears inside his head. That strange little monster sacares me to death. My husband thinks the same, but my son keeps telling me all of his freinds already watched it. What should I do?

2006-10-26 04:50:39 · 13 answers · asked by whothatBE 4 in Family

i need a friend for drinks and a laugh, i am thinking of a woman in dublin, ireland, on the 3 rd of november, we can meet in buskers and go from there. any ladies interested let me know . Thank you.

2006-10-26 04:49:44 · 3 answers · asked by joey h 3 in Friends

2006-10-26 04:49:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plez help me!! i just need a little uplifter to help! WE R 2 YOUNG 2 DRINK!! Any advice 4 me? i m a christian so plez try 2 follow dose guidlinez! and plez don't tell me something like 'take her shopping!'! i hate it when people give crudy advice like dat! so plez, i greatly appreceate your help!! thank you, and god bless!!

2006-10-26 04:48:55 · 19 answers · asked by ichigo_mixed_with_aelita 1 in Friends

We met three months ago and she was happy then but now she says that she is getting bored with me and doesn't feel like our relationship is going anywhere. I don't want to have sex because I am too shy and I'm not sure exactly how to go about it. Help me please? I don't want to be seperated from her.

2006-10-26 04:48:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i m not ready tohave sexs wih nobouty and i afread wen i have sexs with somebotey

2006-10-26 04:48:28 · 4 answers · asked by alison g 1 in Singles & Dating

TO tell your mom me and my mom are close but sometimes i think i tell her too much what do you think is too much?

2006-10-26 04:48:26 · 7 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family

2006-10-26 04:47:20 · 21 answers · asked by fishbone 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and I have differences of opinion. I would like him to do things not because I tell him to do them but because inside he wants to do them. For example, I felt that he was talking to this girl too much. His solution was to stop talking to her. I wanted him to realize for himself that he was talking to her to much. I want him to know what is acceptable or not without me telling him. Am I asking for too much?

2006-10-26 04:46:01 · 26 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i went out with my ex. and now i regreat it cuz the next day i asked him if he still had a thing for me and he said yes but he said that it would be better for us to stay friends.

2006-10-26 04:45:54 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Unforgetable 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this boy and i like him alot! The other day he shouted down the street "oi oi sexy!" And now he's always smiling at me!!! But i've found out that he's got a girlfriend!! But he keeps showing signs that he likes me...please someone help me!!!!

2006-10-26 04:45:49 · 9 answers · asked by ***((amzeh babii))*** 1 in Singles & Dating

if so how long were you together when you started ?

2006-10-26 04:45:48 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 04:45:41 · 3 answers · asked by danutzza d 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister went missing 4 years ago and my mom has had a hard time taking into consideration that she could be dead. My question is : if someone in your family went missing would you rather know he/she is dead but know, or know he/she is still alive but don't know where they are? i hope you understand.

2006-10-26 04:45:27 · 26 answers · asked by Oscar 5 in Family

2006-10-26 04:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by hoodlum 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 04:44:31 · 17 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Singles & Dating

Its that point in a relationship where it has just reach it's dead end. You look at him/her everyday and think about how glad you are that your about to have that talk to finally finish it. Everyday you think, "I don't hate him/her, but as a person...I REALLY don't like him/her." So why did it go on for so long...you tell me?

For me...it was his hair. He had soft, curly, beautiful hair. Besides, he was sexy but that just got played out with his attitude. His hair...that is the one thing that I would really really miss. What about you?

2006-10-26 04:44:25 · 11 answers · asked by Yondie 3 in Singles & Dating

my current girlfriend has a very strong "scent". is there any way to tell her without insulting her. i understand and enjoy a womans smell. but this is too strong for my liking.

2006-10-26 04:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by patrick g 1 in Singles & Dating

i come from highly disfunctional family. got caught up in drugs at early age. the only women that want me are disfunctional women with different issues. i am lonely and want a do over. healthy mentally and physically according to doctors. what a blessing. this life sucks. i laugh and shake my head a lot to myself. i am very over whelmed by the reproccutions of my past mistakes. so blown away and over whelmed i am stuck. i want a woman in my life, but i am tainted by my past. quirky like an old saab automobile. i am tall and attractive, but who cares when ur defective. i dont feel sorry for myself ,not looking for sympothy,only constructive critisism

2006-10-26 04:44:16 · 9 answers · asked by big win 1 in Singles & Dating