Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

me and my boyfriend talked about getting married. and we think we can have sex before marriage.

i have thought about it and wondered if i really wanted that. i dont want to be stupid about anything but i dont know what i should do.
i heard you have a better risk of divorce if you have sex before you marry and if you live with them..
we dont live with each other, so i guess thats good but idk what to do about the whole sex thing.
what do you think?

2006-10-26 04:43:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 04:43:44 · 18 answers · asked by danutzza d 1 in Singles & Dating

kissing another after getting drunk

2006-10-26 04:43:29 · 20 answers · asked by joey 2 in Family

2006-10-26 04:43:04 · 20 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you you know that you are alive just for one day

2006-10-26 04:43:03 · 9 answers · asked by Janet 1 in Family

what would you do with it?

2006-10-26 04:42:15 · 2 answers · asked by imjustlookingok 1 in Friends

hes still lying even after his galpal went to their employer. I'm angry and demanded truthful answers. He said I was the blame, I dont give him attention when he needs it.
I feel like thats bullshit, he's blaming everybody else except himself.
whats the deal why thehead games???

2006-10-26 04:42:14 · 40 answers · asked by val l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so today is my Birthday and when I woke up this morning my boyfriend was to tired to notice I had started getting ready for work. I finally woke him and was like hey why don't you talk to me for a little bit while I'm getting ready for work. He just mumbled I'm too tired. He didn't even say Happy Birthday or anything. It really made me sad and I started crying, finally I woke him again and told him I was leaving for work he was like bye, Is something wrong? I told him I thought maybe he would care that it was my B-day. Then he was like yeah Happy Birthday, I love you. I just left, but I couldn't help but keep crying. Am I being totally stupid? I'm emotional today so please keep that in ming when you answer thanks!!

2006-10-26 04:41:56 · 42 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

A house was inherited and will be sold showing a $60,000 profit. Is this a joint asset?

2006-10-26 04:40:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i come from highly disfunctional family. got caught up in drugs at early age. the only women that want me are disfunctional women with different issues. i am lonely and want a do over. healthy mentally and physically according to doctors. what a blessing. this life sucks. i laugh and shake my head a lot to myself. i am very over whelmed by the reproccutions of my past mistakes. so blown away and over whelmed i am stuck. i want a woman in my life, but i am tainted by my past. quirky like an old saab automobile. i am tall and attractive, but who cares when ur defective

2006-10-26 04:40:39 · 12 answers · asked by big win 1 in Singles & Dating

are you a grump in the morning they say its a well known fact that women are more grumpy in the morning than men is it true what are you like when you get up in the morning

2006-10-26 04:40:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Now he wants to apologize and make up. But I am a scumbag for telling other people things he told me in confidence. Chances are, it will never get back to him, but what should I do? Tell him everyone knows his stuff, tell everyone I lied about my friend cause I was mad (not true, but it's to protect him), or just let it go and hope he will never find out?

I'm a bad person.

2006-10-26 04:40:02 · 6 answers · asked by homsar 1 in Friends

I am doing a paper for one of my classes and I really need help so Plez help the best you can

2006-10-26 04:39:34 · 5 answers · asked by call_me_the_hot_1 1 in Family

i really like this girl, i need something sweet to say to her

2006-10-26 04:39:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay well my friends introduced me to him last year and we only said like "hi" and we hung out a few times and he would sometimes look at me.But now this year he doesn't even look my way and we don't talk at all.Also i've had a habit of getting like really shy around cute guys and i'm not usually shy just when there cute and i really want him to notice me or atleast be able to talk to him .

2006-10-26 04:38:57 · 3 answers · asked by gio j 1 in Singles & Dating

Married 5 years not same culture but love him very much? Does anyone else feel this way?

2006-10-26 04:38:52 · 19 answers · asked by 33kasper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 04:38:34 · 23 answers · asked by N.D.H 2 in Singles & Dating

I am doing a paper for one of my classes and I really need help so Plez help the best you can

2006-10-26 04:38:23 · 5 answers · asked by call_me_the_hot_1 1 in Family

2006-10-26 04:38:16 · 29 answers · asked by albee_tn 1 in Family

2006-10-26 04:37:38 · 48 answers · asked by Dontknow C 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married a year to a wonderful man. He's happy but I feel like I'm not the typical wife. I don't enjoy cooking so it's rare when I make something - my husband is a pastry chef and has spent 15 years in kitchens so he is excellent at it. Also, we do work opposite schedules so it's only a few days a week that he's home for dinner at the same time I am. I also don't enjoy sex. I will do everything but intercourse. And I don't want kids - hubby is fine with it because it was discussed prior to marriage and said he will be happy whether we have them or not. How can I improve myself? I'm on birth control and feel this contributes greatly to my low sex drive. I just want to be there for him and make him happy...sincere suggestions please.

2006-10-26 04:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughters just told me shes a lesbian, and shes seeing another girl who is 30 years older than her shes only 21 i just dont know what to do..Couldn't even look at her...she's just walked out the house, i'm distraught .....PLEASE HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-26 04:36:33 · 92 answers · asked by giltedge69 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how long do you have to go out with someone, become an ex, for it to become in acceptable to go out with their friends?

2006-10-26 04:36:11 · 6 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 04:36:08 · 13 answers · asked by Pissed off 1 in Marriage & Divorce

******True or false?
Love can never exist in its pure form, which is the type of love that is portrayed in Shakespeare's novels……….
Love in real life is always motivated by basic human needs(e.g. sexual desire, comfort, money, reproduction)and co-exist with lust, money, power and hatred.

plz suport your point of views!

2006-10-26 04:35:28 · 7 answers · asked by lollipop 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I wish her well wishes for tomorrow or should I keep quite... she wished me well two months ago although I was not expecting it after how things ended between the two of us. Another thing is that I don't want to encourage her into thinking that I still love or miss her.

2006-10-26 04:35:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do?

2006-10-26 04:35:12 · 8 answers · asked by N.D.H 2 in Singles & Dating

My first grandchilds name is going to be Prescott. Can anyone come up with an idea for a middle name? Thank you for your time. Have a GREAT day!!

2006-10-26 04:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by carolyn_fw 1 in Family

I am a sophomore. I have a crush on another sophomore, but I am shy and her group usually hangs with older crowd(mostly guys). she is in four of my classes including lunch but during school i am embaresed to talk to her. do you think I would have a chance?

Another problem, there is a differentgirl that likes me every day a ton of people tell me to ask her out, but I don't think i have any feelings for her. what should I do?

2006-10-26 04:34:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have this ex who wants me back. I could end it there, and leave you to answer my original question, but I want to give a bit of background.

I loved him. He loved me. He cheated on me just before almost a year of not seeing each other as much as we'd have liked. I cheated on him during that year (neither of us had sex with anyone else, just kissing at most) for revenge and because I was lonely. November that year rolls up, we have an argument, he dumps me. A few days later, I'm quite happy for once, he says he wants me back. I hold off for a year and a half, then he gets a new girlfriend.

Now, she's dumped him. He wants me back. I'm really only after the physical side, but I know he wants more of the emotion stuff. Which I'm fine giving him, but I feel I could do a bit better.

So, the question is, could we somehow come to a compromise whereby we have the best of both worlds? Could we make it work?

My friends and family REALLY dont like him, and I wouldn't tell them until later

2006-10-26 04:34:14 · 12 answers · asked by actor_girl_1986 3 in Singles & Dating