I am a sophomore. I have a crush on another sophomore, but I am shy and her group usually hangs with older crowd(mostly guys). she is in four of my classes including lunch but during school i am embaresed to talk to her. do you think I would have a chance?
Another problem, there is a differentgirl that likes me every day a ton of people tell me to ask her out, but I don't think i have any feelings for her. what should I do?
2006-10-26 04:34:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way do you even have a chance. Give it up. The only thing that you will be able to go on a date with is your hand. Hay here is an ideal you have two hands, have a 3 some.
2006-10-26 04:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My uncle told me a long time ago to never, ever settle for anything less. This applies to anything in your life. If you really like this girl then go after her. You only miss out if you don't go after what you want. I know your probably nervous because nobody wants to be let down, but that's the risk you have to take when you want something. Don't listen to your friends about talking to this other girl when you don't have any feelings for her. That would be a waste of your time and it wouldn't be fair to lead her on when your feelings aren't there. Go and try to talk with this other girl because you might just get what you want. The more time you put this off, the more time you give for some other guy to come in and take her away. By then it will be too late, and then you'll really feel like kicking yourself. She can only give you a yes or no answer. Either way it goes atleast you put up the courage to ask her out. Girls love a guy with confidence, you have to show her you have it. I wish you luck!!!
2006-10-26 11:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem u r having and i'm a sophomore. this is not a easy situation. their one girl who i like and i'm really shy to talk to her, and there's one girl that likes me but i don't have feeling for her. So one day i went to talk to the girl i like, she pretty but her personality wasn't good at all. The next day i've talked to the girl that likes me and found out how wonderful she was and her personality was great, i don't know what happened but my feeling for her just grew, and we've been friends for like two weeks and i've asked her out. I'm currently in love with her and this month is our 5th month aniversarry. Just follow your heart and make the wisest decision and u'll be fine. Good luck.
2006-10-26 11:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bling Bling 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with both women and when the time is right let the person who likes you know you are not interested; this may seem difficult now but it will save many a night of tears and tensive feelings.
Hope this helps
2006-10-26 11:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl that likes you (gently) that you are not interested. Then be brave and ask the girl you like out. She will at least be flattered at the request. Do it in that order.
2006-10-26 11:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by trumpetgal_1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well all you can do is try goin up to the girl, and talking to her and just see what she is about...... For the other girl, if you don't have feelings for her i wouldn't try to lead her on or anything, but tell her how you feel!
2006-10-26 11:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by *Red Hotts* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok I think you should first go out with the one that likes you. you don't know what she's all about. this other girl is probebly out of your league,,sounds like you are so scared to talk to her..so your best bet is deal with the girl that likes you. build up your confidence a little..
2006-10-26 11:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for what you want dude... just try your luck. If you fail you can give the other lady that likes you a chance... you never know.
2006-10-26 11:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to the girl you like...There's no point in going out with someone you don't like...
2006-10-26 11:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tina Shh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I think you should talk to them and tell them about how you feel about them. It is very simple.
2006-10-26 11:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by swasu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋