We met three months ago and she was happy then but now she says that she is getting bored with me and doesn't feel like our relationship is going anywhere. I don't want to have sex because I am too shy and I'm not sure exactly how to go about it. Help me please? I don't want to be seperated from her.
2006-10-26 04:48:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's really great that you're too shy to have sex. I mean that tells me, at least, that you're interested in more than just that. And that's an awesome thing to find in a guy.
If she's -told- you that she's getting bored with you... maybe she's not the right girl for you. Maybe she's one of those girls who only want sex. I know they're out there.
Bring her flowers, chocolates if she's not a diet freak, do something special like... take her somewhere really cool like out in a hot air baloon or something like that if there are any neat things like that around there.
Do something fun like taking her go-cart racing. Everybody loves to be a child once in a while. Take her out dancing. Save up for a while and take her to a really fancy restaurant. You don't have to do that all the time, but once in a while... make it really special. IF she's still bored? Well, the woman's crazy. ;)
2006-10-26 05:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Erin R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. first you should analyse what you were doing before that you stop doing or maybe the problem is her and not you. if you want her to feel loved compliant her everyday and notice any changes that she makes to herself. for example, a new hairstyle and new clothes. when complaining her dont just say you look nice be more detailed like I like your outfit because it brings out your assets.
she getting bored??? make her laugh. crack jokes about yourself and act stupid if you have to, but be genuine and yourself at the same time. take her out more frequently like every weekend be creative dont take her to the same place every week. go ice skating, bowling, movies, dinner, etc.
you said that you are too shy to have sex???? i am drawing the conclusion, you had a bad experience or you are a virgin. well, you have the girl all you need is motivation to have sex. it sounds like you need to loss up a little bit take a deep breathe. theres no pressure. go with the flow.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-26 05:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but I don't think the answer is for you to do anything. You don' t need to have sex with her. Don't do anything that you don't feel comfortable with. If she is saying she is bored, then she has a problem. Please don't think the problem is you. You may just not be right for each other.
2006-10-26 04:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by nursejuley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have to pressured into having sex if you dont want to. Ask her what it is about you that makes her feel bored. I just think she doesnt know what she missing out on.
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2016-12-08 21:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by gagliano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to keep someone from being bored....Put on a clown suit and perform....
Your looking at a life time of having to entertain someone...that a job I would not want
2006-10-26 04:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok
well if she getting bord already i think this is a sign that that relationship is not going to last. but.... what girls always like.... when you go an dates, do the little things like opening the door, picking her up, getting her a flower, hadn pick it. do a traditional date. like go to the movies then dinner(you pay,lol)
if its not worlking, then just let her be
2006-10-26 04:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well..dude at some time in the next 24 hrs you ought to be giving this woman some lovin...some real good *** kicking lovin..then she might say..oh wow..I guess i was wrong about you.
well be more romantic..ask her what she would like to do? talk about sex. ask her what she likes..that might spark an interest..talking openly about things...
2006-10-26 04:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take her hand in yours :)
2006-10-26 04:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Tellie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bring a friend along...
2006-10-26 04:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋