We've Been Goin Out For About 3 Weeks. I Dont Know How To Tell Her I Have A Fetish And Dont Know How To Let Her Know I Have One. I've Known Her For About 5 Years. If She Didn't Like Things Like That I'd Be Cool With It, I LIKE Her Feet, They're Cute And Everything BUt I LOVE Her. I Just Dont Know How To Confront Her About My Fetish.
2006-10-26 04:51:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some folks are funny about feet (a shame I know), but even if she did not share the fetish herself, it would be very rare that someone was so fazed as to call off a relationship.
As for telling her - have you thought about actions rather than words? Perhaps giving her a massage, starting at her shoulders and neck, working down her back, then doing the thighs and carrying on all the way to her feet.
If she starts to freak out as you get near her ankles then you might need to rethink what you are going to say/do next. If she seems to enjoying a sensual massage, she might be quite happy that you seems to spend a LONG time with her feet.
If she is happy with this, then it is for you to decide if you should do more than just massage her feet - as a general rule I have found if someone lets you massage something for a long while they usually have no problem in letting you kiss/lick/stroke/such there as well.
If you feel unsure about this way, then a simple flattering comment like "I do like the way you do/do not use nail varnish on your toes, you have such pretty feet, blah blah"
What feels the best way for YOU is what matters, I am just offering a couple of ideas for you to consider.
Good luck :)
2006-10-26 05:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk only about feet she will freak out.....so don't do that at all. What I do suggest is that you let her know in a simple, serious conversation. Simply tell her that you have always had a certain fixation on cute, and sexy feet.....and also the fact that you really like her feet. Don't tell her that you're addicted to it...or obssessed, because those words will scare anybody. Be honest, but be subtle about it......don't make it look as if that's the only thing that matters in your life. If you approach her in this manner, I'm sure she will at least understand your situation.....and if she's into someone who likes her feet...Life is good! If she's freaked out by it......there's really nothing you or she can do about it, because it's about preference.
Best of Luck!
2006-10-26 04:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start rubbing her feet sometime when the time arises and casually tell her that you love her feet and that womens feet turn you on
2006-10-26 04:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just always talk about feet to her. If she starts to ask questions then let her know.
2006-10-26 04:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by tjnw79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont' ahve to come right out and admit it right away! just give her lots of foot massages and kiss her little tootsies! tell her she is so cute and you love her pretty little toes she'll love the attention and you will love it too!
good luck with that!
2006-10-26 04:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her for a date .. out in a monlight and praise her feet and kiss and caress them.. dont forget to praise her beauty too... and then tell her about your fetish ;)
Regards
Sameer
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2006-10-26 04:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sameer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. she may surprise you with a fetish of her own
2006-10-26 04:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you and her get intimate, suck her toes I am sure she will love that. Ask her if what she likes and mesh what she likes with what you like so you both are satisfied.
2006-10-26 04:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by Gia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say " I have a foot fetish"
2006-10-26 04:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are about to have sex, instead of mounting her, back yourself up to her feet, then grab her feet, and use them to rub your c0ck. that should let her know.
2006-10-26 04:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋