protocol? Do you email for awhile, do you talk on the phone, do you meet in public? We have been emailing lots back and forth. Will he ever ask me out?
2006-10-26 05:22:41 · 9 answers · asked by catzrme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why wait for him to ask you? Ask him? Just remember things are always as it seems. So while he may be this wonderful person online, offline maybe a little different. If you want to meet him, be open minded and try it out. Just be safe. Go to a public place, no home type meetings.
2006-10-26 05:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by T W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing online matters in the slightest. The first time you are physically in his presence is the very beginning of meeting him. It's like you met someone randomly off the street. If you like each other or not is random. So, there is no point putting off meeting him at all. The online portion of this should be limited to "Hey, I think you might be interesting and I'd like to meet you." "I know this little coffee place." "Why don't we meet there for a few minutes and then talk a bit more online." Notice how I left that little bit there at the end? There is no intention of ever talking online. This is a convenient, face, saving out that you will need because most of the time, you won't "click". You don't make a date at this particular meeting. It's solely to see if there is potential. It's easy to let things just fade once they are online again. If they do "click", the next online thing you ask for is his phone number. Then, you never talk online ever again.
That's the way it is done, correctly. You will meet maybe ten guys this way before you find one you both want to progress with.
2006-10-26 05:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my boyfriend on an online dating site. We exchanged emails and phone calls and finally met at a party with lots of people around. If you decide to meet him make sure that your first meeting is in a public place. Be safe and trust your gut. and just between you and me, guys like it when we ask them out ;)
2006-10-26 05:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by kelly_the_texan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take it easy... what's the rush? email for a while until you're comfortable with talking on the phone. talk on the phone for a while until you feel comfortable with meeting in public. go to the mall or have lunch somewhere. then if that goes well, schedule a date.
and by the way, i don't kiss on the first date so if you're looking for me to put out, you're going to have to find someone else. XD
2006-10-26 05:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he nonetheless save's depending on very own then he's no longer particular a dating will initiate with you. in keeping with possibility attempt one greater date and ask some severe question and is he has a dating then he might choose for to look for yet another women. and if he stored looking then u could be attentive to to leave
2016-11-25 21:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to email for a while, then move up to the phone, then when been going on for a while, he'll prolly want to meet somewhere.
2006-10-26 05:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Taco Bomber Baby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is a man so he should be the first to invite you to go out...He must not be interested for you to go out w/ him...
2006-10-26 05:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send him a link to this question, that'll make him wake up!
2006-10-26 05:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
meet out in public...and take your dad's gun
ya know ...just in case
2006-10-26 05:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋