I'm 31 years old and my wife is 24. We have 4 children with twins. Have been married for 6 yrs.
My wife has 3 sisters and a brother. One of the sisters and brother are married. My other two sister in laws are 17 & 15 yrs and they have been living with us for the past six years.
I treat my two sister in laws as my own daughters and they call me dad and I'm fine with that. My wife's parents died when they were 3 & 5 yrs. They've been living with us for 6 yrs and they have called me dad all this time. My wife's happy about it and says I'm great.
I treat them like my own daughters from my heart and have done everything to them including all expenses. I've bought two houses for them, for their marriage. They say that I am like their own dad and kiss me.When I married they were 9 & 11 and from then they have been kissing me Is it okay for them to kiss me in a FATHER DAUGHTER WAY ONLY on the cheek and calling me dad? My wife says she's happy when they kiss me and treat me like a dad
2006-10-26 05:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you keep asking these questions worries me. I mean... has someone suggested to you that it is inappropriate? Or do you have inappropriate feelings about it?
If you, your wife, and the two girls all think it is fine and have no problem with it, why are you so worried about it?
2006-10-26 05:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its ok. Actually you should be glad that they consider you like their dad being that they've been through so much with their own parents. I still treat my step-dad as my dad even after him and my mom split and still call him 'daddy' to this day.
The bond that you have created with those girls should be something that you should be proud of and I am happy to hear of someone that has taken in two young girls and treated them like their own.
Good luck.
2006-10-26 13:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your wife have raised them like your own. They must love you lots to call you dad. Sure they can kiss you on the cheek.
2006-10-26 12:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? If you don't think of them more than like your own daughters, I don't see any reason why it would not be okay. In my culture, the younger generations kiss their elderlies on the cheek. It's a sign of respect.
2006-10-26 12:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by no clue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not??? I would personally NEVER EVER call someone other than my real parents mom or dad, but hey... If they are that close to you and feel that comfortable with you... then thats great. Now if it bothers you, then its not ok and you should do or say something, But i wouldnt. It sounds great!
2006-10-26 12:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, i can see how it can become an issue. But as long as your state of mind isn't participating in the realm of lust and sexual attraction when u kiss them i see no problem. Especially if its just a cheek kiss, but in any case, its your predisposition to the kissing that gives it any meaning.
2006-10-26 12:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by st.camilus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. They love you like a dad, and you love them like daughters. There's absolutely no problem with kissing your daughters or your dad.
2006-10-26 12:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jaco K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's perfectly ok. Stop being uptight. They obviously love you. You've been a great dad to them.
2006-10-26 12:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? You are their father figure, and its a way of expressing affection. You are lucky to have in-laws you can care about so much and have it returned.
2006-10-26 12:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it is, there`s nothing wrong cause everything is done with respect and with a father-daughter love! don`t feel bad about it!
2006-10-26 13:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by drclaudia06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋