This is the situation(s). I have a history of being head over heals for people and then one day, out of nowhere, not wanting them anymore. It happened again this morning. I was in love with this guy! I guess I thought. I couldn't get enough of him, then this morning, I don't want him anymore! Nothing has changed between us..nothing. What is wrong with me? Why do I keep doing this? Do I need to see a psychiatrist?
2006-10-26 05:21:09 · 12 answers · asked by michellewho11582 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 24years old
2006-10-26 05:28:10 · update #1
It sounds like that you want to be in love but you are afraid to make that commitment. You don't want to get hurt so before you open up and give your all, you let them go before they let you go. Maybe being single for a while will help you sort out your feelings. Or if that doesn't work, maybe talking to it with a professional will.
2006-10-26 05:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to see a psychiatrist- they dispense medication. It wouldnt' hurt to see a psychologist, though, they are the talking doctor. You might be confused that you are head over heels in the first place, so not wanting him later seems like a big change. In fact, you are probably swept up in an excited feeling that has a short life, and was never attached to the person in the first place.
2006-10-26 05:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you do not need a psychiatrist - they'll just give you inaccurate labels, like you are bipolar, or other false labels you'll be stuck with & wrongly judged for - for the rest of your life.
Just come to the awareness, the realization that you can NOT trust your feelings and emotions, especially in these areas.
Love is not a feeling and emotion that can be turned on one moment and turned off the next.
This is an attraction, not love.
Love is action. Allow me to explain. Love is a verb. It is very patient toward others, and oneself. Love is kind. Love is tolerant of other religions and other cultures and other races. Love accepts people for who and what they are, and Love is not critical, judgemental of others. Love does not gossip. Love practices self-control at all times. Love forgives at all times. It may not always agree with the behavior of another, but it does forgive. Love is trusting, and Love can be trusted. Love does not resent others, and Love is not jealous either.
Love believes the best of others. Love is compassionate, merciful, and gentle toward others and onesself. Love does not think negative toward others. Love does its best to live peaceably with all people. Love strives toward inner peace at all times for oneself.
Love knows that as a person thinks within, so he or she becomes, so love chooses to be conscious of its thoughts at all times. Love has faith in humanity, believing the best for all humanity. Attractions, short term relationships, Eros Love is fleeting, that comes and goes. This love is based on feelings alone. This love is conditional. If you treat me this way, I will love you(I will continue to "feel" love toward you, and for you). This conditional love can not be trusted.
Simply live your life to the fullest and be a giver, one willing to serve others with generosity. A servant is Really the greatest. The servant is selfless, caring for the needs of others before his/her own personal gratification.
Love Life! Enjoy committed relationships with friends and family. Life is based on these kind of relationships. And as you go through school and work, etc. that Mr. Right or Miss Right will simply come your way. This person will treat you with a sincere love, as was described earlier above. And this person will Love you with a true unconditional Love that will last you a liftime.
You are unique and very special. Don't accept the words of others that say you are bipolar, or unstable emotionally. You do not need medications. It all begins in the thought-life.
Keep a good self image.
And if you agree with what I personally have shared with you on what LOVE really is,
"put it into practice". But be patient with yourself, it takes time to replace bad habits with good habits.
You have the ability and strength to walk what I call The Love Walk. The Love Walk draws people to you. Cherish the friendships you have, and others you will soon have and enjoy life!
2006-10-26 05:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you. That's the typical fickleness of youth, and you probably aren't in love, but just infatuated. Don't worry. When the right one comes along, your feelings won't be changing like a light switch. Enjoy yourself in the meantime and don't beat yourself up about your feelings.
2006-10-26 05:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by mimi22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you stopped using the word "love" you'll feel better about yourself.
I hope you're not having sex with all the guys you "love"...that would be a whole different problem
Seeing a lot of different people is a good thing....that's how you decide what you want if you decide to marry.
2006-10-26 05:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if your in middle or high school then this sounds completely normal. but if your any older you need to sit down and realize what you really want out of a boyfriend or partner.
2006-10-26 05:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by lovelife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like any one can turn you on
2006-10-26 05:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by coombzay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just haven't found your tru love yet.
2006-10-26 05:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Taco Bomber Baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could be bipolar or just female
2006-10-26 05:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by sexylittleleo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Young and Dumb?
2006-10-26 05:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋