you may get your revenge but it may may backfire on you sooner or later. it is best to think about doing what is best for yourself. be honest with yourself. can you ever trust him again? is it likely that he'll betray you again in the future? it may be difficult to leave a person you love but if you are who he wants to be with, he will come running after you. if not, then it's his loss, not yours.
2006-10-26 05:27:22
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answered by sheilanmanny12 3
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There is no such thing as sweet revenge. It is all bitter, because revenge of this sort is a form of hatred. You might think it will be sweet, but it won't. The old Klingon proverb is most apt. If you feel the need to teach him a lesson after your emotions are cooled, then he probably needs that lesson. But if you do it now, he will only get the message that you're angry and he might feel slighted and justified in his anger at whatever you might do. He might even call the law if it is something big enough.
If the ex-wife is remarried, then a phone call to the husband might work, so the boyfriend can get a taste of consequences. However, it is obvious he isn't ready for you, and you need to move on and get the best revenge by living well and happy WITHOUT him.
2006-10-26 05:36:11
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answered by Black Dog 6
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You've got a real good chance to eek out some great revenge.
Here's the simple skinny… find out if he's using condoms or not, then poke holes in the condoms. That will not only have him caught in the act, but will give him great incentive to grow up, become more mature, and quit screwing his ex's.
The simple truth of matter is we are all attracted in some sick, twisted way to our ex-boyfriend or girlfriend. It's the relationship Stockholm syndrome. You have it, i have it, definitely your boyfriend has it. Most of us never act on it, but we always allude to it when we say stuff like, "i need closure" or "i can't move on without resolving this".
Here's the clue, when you ex is with someone else, issue resolved. Since he will be your ex soon enough, give him a great parting gift… his ex's baby!
…and tell the happy family to live happily ever after.
Wish you luck!
2006-10-26 05:30:47
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answered by diagofaldi 2
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Tell her you hope she used protection and don't fill in the blanks. If nothing else, she'll have plenty of questions for him. LOL But seriously, the best revenge truly is 'living well.' Don't let him know how much it hurt, and don't give him a chance to explain either. Get away from this creep before he does get a hold on you.
2006-10-26 05:26:28
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answered by Anonymous
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first, who do you want revenge against? why do you want revenge? revenge will only make you feel better for a short amount of time, once it's over, you'll go back to being upset and hurt. So if the outcome is the same, what's the point in putting yourself through drama. You are going to prolong the obvious. Your man was unfaithful and hurt you. I think you owe it to yourself to let it go.
2006-10-26 05:23:57
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answered by T W 3
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Revenge is sweet ,no doubt. However, you must keep in mind that it could backfire. Are you ready for that? Move on to bigger and better things. No need to bother with revenge. It will take care of itself.
2006-10-26 05:26:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Ahh.Here you go girl.
1. Call to his job over and over again and get him fired.
2. Have someone kick hiss *** for you and when the beating is over tell them to say it was from you.
3. Does he have a car? sugar in the gas tank is one of my personal favz. I would also go with broken windsheild or flat all 4 tires. Dont mess with the windows on the doors. The windsheild will cost more to fix.
4. get the bitches phone # and put it on one of those chat lines, pretend your her and say youll give free blow jobs! The men will be calling to her house 24/7!!!!!
Hope this helps!!
2006-10-26 05:29:02
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answered by izy966 2
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As you know the saying, "Two wrongs don't make a right." Keep that in mind cause the only person you are hurting is yourself. He isn't going to care one way or the other because he already got what he wanted. Just be strong about it and I think you will prevail. I know it's hard but don't stress about it.
2006-10-26 05:24:35
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answered by frakmomma04 3
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I shall assume that he is now your ex b/f..............even tho revenge is GREAT I would take this as a lucky lucky escape and move on letting them know they are welcome to each other cos you sure do not want his sorry butt anymore.
Sorry you had to deal with this but at least you have found out.
Revenge with something I did was send to her house HIS clinic results showing he had something really nasty and by law we have to let you know this fact BUT I REPEAT BUT I am not sure how the law works over in the USA with this one, so step carefully.
2006-10-26 05:25:11
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answered by candy g 7
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i had the same problum with a former [now x future husband ] i thought of alot of ways to get even then i got to thinking why should i be with someone that isn't honest and loyal to a realationship. if you can't trust him . why be with him. if its not a two way street get out . cause if you are planning a long term realationship with this person . what ever he's getting away with now will continue sorry dear . but sometimes truth hurts . you have to have ground rules common sence .
2006-10-26 05:42:53
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answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3
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