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okay well should i be friends with the guy that i just got out of a relashonship with he told me that we were just giong to be friends for now and i want to be freinds with him but i dont know if thats a good thing to do!! and him telling me that he just wants to be friends for now do you think anything will happen!!! should i be friends with him? and what dose he mean by we will just be friends for now!!

2006-10-26 05:19:55 · 4 answers · asked by brit 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If you just got out of the relationship with this guy and he wants to "just be friends," he probably is not ready for a steady relationship right now. But he does not want to lose you, therefore proposes a friendship. It isn't a commitment for anything solid in the relationship other than friendship, but it is a sign that a commitment is not what he is pursuing at this time.

Perhaps something in the relationship that you had with him before indicates a need to just be friends. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, sometimes, its better to take a step aside and go slow. The fact that he wants to remain friends is good, though. Many people do not realize that starting off as friends is actually a wonderful way to start a relationship. You take more time to learn about one another instead of focusing on long term commitments.

Enjoy the friendship, by all means. :)

2006-10-26 05:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 0 0

You should read this book you can find at your local library; it's called

"He's Just Not That Into You.", by the Author, Greg Behrendt. It explains a

lot about relationships, plus it is a funny book.

2006-10-26 12:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by judy f 3 · 0 0

You should at least try but if you set limits and let him know you guys can only be friends then he will get the point he can only get as far you let him.

2006-10-26 12:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just be friends with him.

2006-10-26 12:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1 0

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