How do i just shut my mouth and be a shoulder for her to lean on instead of WRINGING her neck for doing things SHE knows are wrong for her and her family?
2006-10-26 05:24:25 · 11 answers · asked by Jep 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
THe guy isn't actually the problem-she id newly married and he is generally a good kid-thats the problem they are both WAY immature for their age 19 and 20 and they have a baby-they aren't doing anything illegal-they are just not thinking things through-not thinking how anything will effect their futures and what is best for them to ensure a long and happy life together, no that I have a niece-I just feel so protective...As I have spent nearly 7 years watching and keeping my mouth shut over stupid stunts she has pulled.
2006-10-26 05:34:50 · update #1
I have a sister like that too...... you help with the kids......
you know whats best.....there just now learning....
don't understand..... the importance of a baby yet.......
you help in any way you can..... even if they
get mad.......the child will appreciate it.........
2006-10-26 16:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found the only way I can keep my mouth shut when it comes to my sister is to not get as involved in what is going on with her. Once I know everything I must speak.
2006-10-26 05:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be her shoulder to lean on, tell her that and then shut your mouth. Tell her you don't approve and that you will not support what is wrong with her...it only encourages her.
2006-10-26 05:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am like you and can't keep my mouth shut for anything
2006-10-26 05:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by magnimpi2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a hard one to do but if you love her youll learn how to shut up and bring up the things she is doing wrong at a later time sisters are tough!!!!
2006-10-26 05:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by that girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First your need to tell your sister, I love you, but I hate the sin that your doing, and tell her, that anytime you want to talk your there for her, but you wont support the sin or what ever the bad things that she is doing
2006-10-26 05:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be patient and wait until she comes to you for guidance. Don't berate her for past behavior, but show her what she can do to rectify or correct the situation. good luck
2006-10-26 05:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is after all her life & she seems to have a family of her own to take care of her. But try to be a sis & talk to her about mistakes she is doing & consequenses.
2006-10-26 05:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by shorams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication and understanding go along way.
2006-10-26 05:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by woooh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple. find the guy she is making bad decisions with and beat the **** out of him and tell him to stay the hell away.
2006-10-26 05:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋