Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

She loves him and has made plans to marry him, but says the sex is "just okay". Can my friends relationship work?

2006-10-25 07:26:28 · 17 answers · asked by Pirate Hooker 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and have only been in one relationship which was quite serious in the sense that we both had deep feelings for each other. Now we've broken up.

Because it's the first time I had to get over someone I've been thrown from one extreme to another emotionally. My ex-girlfriend has had at least 5 relationships. I don't know how she's feeling, 'cause at the moment I can't contact her, but I was wondering that if a person has gone through these emotions involved in relationships that if they later become less sensitive or less effected by them?

For example...has anyone ever felt like that first time they fell in love again by some else or do you sort of become used to the feelings of love and those of breaking up?

2006-10-25 07:26:21 · 4 answers · asked by madmax 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21 years old and I've been with my husband for 2 years. During that time we have both done our share of immature things, but recently he did something for which I might not be able to forgive him. He always has had a fantasy about having a 3 some, but I told him before we were married that I wasn't comfortable with this. Then, he found another woman after we were married and tried to get us to "bond". That hurt me so badly that I went out and almost cheated on him (stopped at the last minute). He went out with the same woman behind my back and made out with her (also had genital contact but no "sex" per say). I was willing to forgive him, but now she's brough him up on sexual assult charges. He didn't rape her, but he's too pushy and she's inexperienced. Basicly he freaked her out and now he's dragging me through his ****. I can't even tell anyone. What should I do? I love him, but is he the wrong person to be with? :(

2006-10-25 07:26:19 · 21 answers · asked by drkangel210e 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm almost 23. Mu husband just turned 24. I have had self-esteem issues for a couple of years now, and am wondering if this is my problem or if he is just lying to make me feel better.

Afew nights ago, me and my husband were having sex, and he didn't finish. I felt like I had done something wrong, since usually he has no problems in the bedroom department. I tried everything I know to do. Nothing happened! As a result, we end up fighting, and he's sleeping in the other bedroom. He finally comes back to our bed, and we end up talking about it. He says that just because he didn't finish does not mean he didn't enjoy it. Is he crazy, or lying to me?

2006-10-25 07:26:18 · 19 answers · asked by tinkerbell24 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to apologize to the public for the litle details i gave before.----she wanted both of us to break up, cause she taught we was 'nt a good couple and to think he was better than me she wanted him to be with another co-worker and she had the other superviser lying on me she even tried to get me fired we could'nt even ask for the same days off

2006-10-25 07:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by scarlet 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, long story short, I am getting married in march of '07 and I havent started planing yet. I have been told it takes nine months to plan a wedding, but I dont want it to elaborately planned, just simple. Is this enough time, or do i need to move the date?

2006-10-25 07:25:03 · 30 answers · asked by SunnyD 1 in Weddings

My spouse left me 1 year ago for another woman. I have thus far refrained from contacting her, because he is the one to blame, as he married me and cheated. Now that a year has passed, I do feel an urge to contact the other woman, but I don't know if I should thank her for ridding me of him, berate her for helping to break up a family with a small child, or just let it go.

2006-10-25 07:24:24 · 20 answers · asked by tethergrrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont want to go to my daughters wedding but if I dont she would be hurt. I love her but dont like her guy!! He is too cocky!!!

2006-10-25 07:24:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What was the outcome? Or what do you think about this?

For instance, say... A sister has been dating this guy for 10 months, he attends family gatherings with her. Her sister strikes up conversations with him, they share a lot of common interests. They laugh, they have fun, and it's just a great time.

She begins to look forward to these family gatherings so she'll see him again. Then one day her sister breaks up with him. He doesn't attent family gatherings anymore of course.

The girl realizes she misses him. :-( One day a few months down the road, she calls his place of employment "just to talk". However, he doesn't work there anymore.

She wants to find him, but is reluctant because she doesn't know how her sister will feel about it. So, she feels kinda stuck, and is still missing him terribly. :-(

What are your thoughts on this? Has anyone ever entered a successful relationship with an "ex" of a relative?

2006-10-25 07:23:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it a good idea to start something with someone you work with

2006-10-25 07:23:45 · 32 answers · asked by lindapiglet1982 1 in Singles & Dating

i want a great song to get married with but there is so many choices! im getting married on the beach and my man and i are into like blink-182, they have really romantic songs but im not sure, i want something aproprate for family, still i would like something that we both like, any sugestions?

2006-10-25 07:23:42 · 13 answers · asked by punk_grl12125 1 in Weddings

My bf and I have been dating for about 1 yr and 6 mo., and have been living together for almost a year.

Sometimes we get into arguments...and some points it seems like everyday. He always walks out of the house and basically threatens to break up with me.

But other than those times, we seem pretty happy with eachother.

Only thing is we seem to annoy eachother in some ways: He nags at me all the time and I sometimes snap at him.

Our sex life isnt exciting anymore....he always wants to do it..but for his own pleasure and not mine--so Ive become bored with it.

We both love eachother a lot, but we talked last night and it seems like we might not be able to be together....we dont know how to fix it..andit feels like our love is dwindling.

Please help!

2006-10-25 07:23:36 · 9 answers · asked by I Love My Kitties 5 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I have known each other since elementary school and we started getting really close in freshman year. We've been best friends ever since. I considered her family. Last year she got involved with this boy named Rob. I really liked him at first I've liked all the boyfriends she's had, but Rob seemed nice at first, but then I got to see the real him. He talked crap about me to everyone including my other best friends (that's how I know) and it's immature. He treats her okay, and they're apparently in "love" at 17 or whatever, but the way he treats me is unberable. Everywhere we go, he has to come..I don't think he knows the meaning of girls night. In the past year everywhere I've went with my friend, Rob's been right there. Everyone hates him, I'm just the only one that was able to tell her how I felt, and now our friendship is in pieces, because when I told her, she didn't believe me and called me a liar. A little ridiculous I think. Help?

2006-10-25 07:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, do ya?

2006-10-25 07:22:39 · 6 answers · asked by sincarnato 3 in Singles & Dating

okay everyone I am going to give u a summary. I fell in love with a man who was still marry but he told me their marriage was over. The paper work is done and he still calling her love and stuff. Beside that he text other girls and hide it from me. He lie to me over and over. But I this never happen til now after I gave birth to our baby boy. I feel invisible and so lonely. My heart ache and I cry almost every single day. I know I have to leave him. but I want to be mentally stable for my son. He’s my second bf and he promise he was going to marry me, but so much for that, we got into a fight and he told me he wasn’t planning on marrying me after all. I love him. how am I going to get over this? I know is going to take a long time I wish it wouldn’t hurt so much. HELP!!!

2006-10-25 07:22:26 · 13 answers · asked by Sexy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 13 and my mom hates me doing what I want with my style. She wants to complain because I choose to wear clothes that aren't REVEALING, but don't make me look 30 pounds heavier, and I choose to wear side bangs that occasionally cover my eye. She attacks anything I do different, from me drawing X's on my hands (sXe) to the colors I wear. I honestly crave to tell her that it's not HER hair or HER body or HER eye or HER hands, but I don't want to be that spoiled. I don't act angry towards her or anything until she starts complaining about what I like to do. My dad's even bragged about how I do as I'm told. But I really like the way I look and the way I do things now and I don't want to change it. I mean, at least I'm not out doing drugs, smoking, and drinking! What can I do?

2006-10-25 07:21:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my question is my friend has strong feelings for me and he has liekd me and still likes me. me & him have a good connection with each other but the thing is he wishes to be with me than his ex. she broke his heart and hurt him. well basically she would'nt let him do anything. he missess me and wants well we still talk to each other online. and he does care for me and is worried what happen to me. for his birthday i made him a friendship bracelet and he thought it was cool of me and he has told me he cared about me. also he has told me he would want to go out with me. what your advice.

2006-10-25 07:21:44 · 4 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

I think I might be gay how do I deal with it?

2006-10-25 07:21:39 · 12 answers · asked by babyjay_babyjae 2 in Singles & Dating

She mentioned something about dinner, but I want this to be a surprise so I don't want it to involve something she has hinted towards me. Any ideas would be great. I'm looking for a sweet gesture, not necessarily buying flowers or jewerly. Thanks in advance

2006-10-25 07:21:33 · 25 answers · asked by suiciderunningthick 1 in Singles & Dating

I have some family, but no friends, never dated.
I'm 20 years old and I get real depressed about my life sometimes.
Will things ever change for me or will I die alone.

Also, first one to answer the question about beats in my profile gets best answer for BOTH question.

Woo Hoo

2006-10-25 07:21:05 · 17 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this woman I met on my space for a couple of weeks. She seems very needy and has Latched on to me. The bedroom part is great, but i don’t want to spend every free minute I have with her.. Any suggestions how to get her to back off a little but still keep her?
I am just starting to date again ..i am 42 and she is 45..

2006-10-25 07:20:25 · 20 answers · asked by carpet man 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 07:19:45 · 2 answers · asked by sue baby 1 in Friends

My exboyfriend & I broke up almost 2 months ago. We decided to stay friends. He has a new girlfriend in his life. I have no one. My ex & I text message each other back & forth a lot, but rarely actually talk or see each other. I can tell that he fell very hard for his new girlfriend. He tells me how inlove he is & they're going to be moving in together soon. They're even talking about marriage some day. So, he calls me this morning out of the blue. As we're talking he made a comment about him and me getting back together in the future. I told him that there's NO WAY I'll ever get back with him & I mean it. He lied to me in the past & I have definite trust issues with him. I told him that he's inlove with his girlfriend, not me. He says, well maybe someday. I told him no again! So, I ask him if his girlfriend & I walk into a room at the same time, who would he go up & hug first? He said his gf. I said, well there's your answer. Why is he acting like this when he loves her, not me?

2006-10-25 07:19:11 · 18 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last yr me and my ex were like rabbits, we had sex 2-3 times a week and i have now had sex 3 times in 2 months. It is quite frustratin, has this ever happened to you? If so how did you deal with the frustration? I know sex is not everythin but it is sometimes hard

2006-10-25 07:18:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't stand my husband's brother... He is inconsiderate and he knows he can get over on my husband because my husband's too nice. His brother treats everyone like that...and gets away with it...His brother always asks my husband to take him places and never ever gives him gas money.My husband is too nice to ask..so I told him he can't take him around anymore...His brother also cursed me out because one time me and my husband were having a fight and he overheard it..and thought I was being mean to him... this was 3 years ago..and I have hated him ever since.. I don't know how to tell my husband to put his foot down with him..

2006-10-25 07:18:14 · 14 answers · asked by heart'sbreath 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I brokeup afew months ago and today he was looking at me the same way he did when him and I were 2gether and he was in love with me. He looked at me like he still is in love with me. And I still love him. But why the look if he claims he likes my friend his other ex? Does he like both of us? What do u think?

2006-10-25 07:17:57 · 5 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know what happened to this group? I used to go on this chatroom a lot and one day I was checking and it was gone.

2006-10-25 07:17:55 · 2 answers · asked by the_post2001 5 in Friends

2006-10-25 07:17:31 · 6 answers · asked by enigma1073 2 in Singles & Dating

Positive/negative response?

2006-10-25 07:17:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats your favorite thing to eat it on?

2006-10-25 07:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by ♣fo' by fo'♠ 3 in Singles & Dating