Last yr me and my ex were like rabbits, we had sex 2-3 times a week and i have now had sex 3 times in 2 months. It is quite frustratin, has this ever happened to you? If so how did you deal with the frustration? I know sex is not everythin but it is sometimes hard
2006-10-25 07:18:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we broke up thats why i stopped gettin it as much, but he is still the one im sleepin with
2006-10-25 07:23:11 · update #1
Well for one he could be using u now for sex since u are not together and yes i have been through the same thing the thing is it was always right before we split up and that is how i know that he was up to something and i was always right so if i was u be very careful still doing something with him
2006-10-25 07:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by wizard402006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand the male of the species. They did a test with primates. A male in a room and trooped females in heat into the room. He was able to have sex continuously time after time more than 20 times. BUT, as soon as they brought one of the females he already had sex with, in, he was not the least bit interested in her or sex. Another new female and he was right back at it.
I have observed the exact same thing with humans. He can't get it up twice for the same woman, but you bring another one in and he is hot to go, several times in a row.
Men are just that way. For awhile you will f*** like rabbits. Then biology takes over. It has nothing to do with you or his affection for you - it is just biology. You can spice things up a bit and be the aggressor, but those are short term, stop gap measures.
What you have described is one of the main reasons for divorce and for men going after younger women. As a side note - divorce in USA is 50-60%. Divorce among swingers is about 5%. Good luck.
2006-10-25 07:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, thats happened to me and my boyfriend. He was more upset than I was, but it doesnt have to be all bad. This is a good time to tease the hell out of him and make yourself irresistable. I guaranteed he will do anything in his power (or whoever you're trying to sleep with) to get it from you
2006-10-25 07:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty hard, the best solution is a FWB which you seem to have in your ex, seems like you need another, where can I send my application *smiles*.
2006-10-25 07:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by John H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember quality not quantity. maybe you should make the moves and your partner will follow.
2006-10-25 07:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by porsha226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋