She loves him and has made plans to marry him, but says the sex is "just okay". Can my friends relationship work?
2006-10-25 07:26:28 · 17 answers · asked by Pirate Hooker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course! All she has to do is show him what she wants. An okay lover can turn into an amazing lover if you just point him in the right direction.
2006-10-25 07:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a relationship is going to work, the sex needs to be more than ok. Otherwise, one of you or both will be looking outside of your little life to find the exciting sex.
Sex doesnt make a relationship... but in reality, its a big part for many couples. You can try to boost the sex in many ways in order to try and make it work... Only, be honest with yourself before you get in too deep and find that the sex being OK, per say, not enough.
Good Luck...
2006-10-25 07:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships aren't about sex they're about love if you're getting married. If the sex is just okay maybe the same goes for the relationship and if its just okay she shouldn't get married.
2006-10-25 07:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but the ok sex is gonna start to show for both of them and when it does there could be problems between them. she needs have him stimulate her better and that will take care of the little problem. sex is not the biggest part of a relationship but it is a part and that has to be good with the rest of the relationship.
2006-10-25 07:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to put in some serious work to make a relationship work. If all your friend can think about is just "OK sex", then it will not work.
2006-10-25 07:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is not built on sex although some people think it is. Also you can tell your friend to just get an erotic movie and they can watch it together to get tips. Also the only way he can make it better is by your friend telling him what she likes.
2006-10-25 07:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by katie t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, your relationship can work. good sex does not mean a good relationship. sex is a bonus for the relationship you have emotionally, mentally, and spiritually with someone.
not to mention, a good relationship takes open honesty and a willingness to take care of each others needs. that includes being open about what could make sex better......and lots and lots of practice to get it just right ; )
2006-10-25 07:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't just one way or the other. You have to work on it and learn what the other person likes, you know? It's part of building the relationship.
If they've tried that, and they still aren't having good sex, then that's a problem -- yes.
2006-10-25 07:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she plans to marry him, I hope she feels that she love him more than his sex. Because if sex is important to her she will find herself going out on him to satisfy her needs!
2006-10-25 07:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm assuming she is in the relationship for more than just the sex. a man isn't going to be perfect so as long as she can look past that they will be fine.
2006-10-25 07:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋