Ok, here goes... My wife and I have been married for 5+ years. Average late 20s white couple.
She was very sexually active in HS to the point of sneaking out of the house to have sex with a man of another race. Then, had 3 other sex partners in college before we met. I had not had sex at all before I met her. LOTS of stored up energy...At first, our chemistry was great and we were EXTREMELY sexual for all of our courtship (2 years). Then, about 3 months before our wedding, she wanted to halt that so we could feel "virginal" on our wedding night which was perfectly normal.
Then, we were married, sex some but not like previously. Then, we got pregnant which became her #1 excuse for no sex (understandable). Then, her weight became the excuse even though I love her body and am a person that always makes her feel good. Now, money and stress are excuses. she makes me feel like a rapist for wanting sex with her more than twice a month. There's no cheating but I feel completely left out
2006-10-25
07:45:17
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harrysmint
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Marriage & Divorce