Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

2006-10-25 08:08:54 · 19 answers · asked by stupid me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 08:08:46 · 2 answers · asked by justnae 2 in Singles & Dating

I've recently noticed that my husband's sexual appetite changes when he's been out drinking. I notice when we're out together he gets flirted with a lot. I don't mind it because I think it's kinda funny when he points to me and tells them "that's who I'm hoping to take home with me tonight" & they walk away sulking. What I understand he does the same thing when I'm not there (the 2ce a year he does go out w/out me), he tells them he's unavailable for anything but a dance.
Either way when he comes home, he's an animal in bed. Our sex life is very healthy normally & I refuse him nothing ever! But it seems like when he's been flirted with & he's been drinking he's a totally different person in bed. I've never really minded it, but it's been concerning me lately.

Do you think it's just because he's got all that extra testerone & ego left over from a night of being hit on, do you think it's the alcohol, maybe a little bit of both, should I be worried that he's bored with me?

2006-10-25 08:08:32 · 12 answers · asked by Heather S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Or do you think I'm strange for looking forward to doing the detailing on my Harley. She has to do it, so I've been waiting for weeks. She's much better at it than I am.

2006-10-25 08:08:19 · 32 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 08:08:04 · 33 answers · asked by ifoundmy1truelovewithinyou 1 in Weddings

im going through a divorce of 8 years of marriage me and my husband agreed to adopt our two kid .we had them since birth he decided to start hanging in the steets and useing drugs .i would not put up with that .and gave him a choice.he chose the street.he told the social worker he changed him mind about adopting the kids .so i adopted then alone .now he,s gotten his self together we both moved on .but the children dont know the whole story .and they calls him to see him .he only lies and say he will pick them up on weekends and dont show .my question is should i stop all contac with him and the kids .they really love him .he,s theonly dad they know. but he lies to them.and have them up set.

2006-10-25 08:07:53 · 10 answers · asked by lovely me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this guy since like 8th grade, we were really good friends and lovers at one point. I when we were friends i was dating his best friend but there was always like a tension between us, like we wanted to be with each other so bad. When me and my ex broke up me and (we'll call him John) JohnBecame lovers. However it didnt really last long... Both me and him lived seperate lives with seperate friends. The about a year ago I met back up with him and he told me that he had been thinking about me and that he really wanted to be with me. We kissed and held each other (no sex) but when the night was done we went our seperate ways again. I dont know if he was being real when he said that he wanted to be with me or just telling me what i wanted to hear. He was a player when we were younger, when we were on a friend basis and i told him never to play me like that bcuz i liked him no matter how he was, whether he was with me or not.... Anyway so I havent seen him in a year and i know

2006-10-25 08:07:47 · 4 answers · asked by kenz6987 2 in Family

There are two girls that I like. They are both attractive and they both have very good personalities. One of them is going out with someone that I'm friendly with. One is a little more popular than the other. I don't know who to choose.

2006-10-25 08:06:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out that the woman i am in love with is a virgin. When and if we get married how can i make it as comfortalbe for her as possible. Any advise would be great.

2006-10-25 08:06:05 · 22 answers · asked by DaveW 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 08:05:08 · 10 answers · asked by Qariskaxoor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't get life, one minute it will be going great then the next it sucks. Why is that?

2006-10-25 08:04:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-25 08:04:46 · 14 answers · asked by ihwenus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 08:04:35 · 13 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

... however he won't leave his wife, but calls her 5 times every day (excl. Sunday). I need to provide advice, and I'm not sure what to say - please help!?

2006-10-25 08:03:56 · 28 answers · asked by gareth_bancroft 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 08:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by visionquest936 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl i don't even know wants to fight me.

ok if you saw me youd know i'm not those fighting type of people. i never fought before in my life. and no i'm not gonna start.

i don't wanna sound like pussy but i'm scared. she is TEN times bigger than me and fought a lot of people.

i don't even KNOW this kid.

what can i do?

2006-10-25 08:03:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am married and have 2 children and my mother has interfeared so many times it has always caused trouble with my husband and myself. she hates him and doesn't mind telling him. we got so bad my husband and i have split up for w hile and trying to work things out. but everytime we almost secceed she stars in again. I thought ok maybe she just don't like him but my brother got married about a year ago and now she hates his wife too. she always puts me down when i'm trying best i can. she babysits for me and i pay her to watch my kids but she's so bossy i get cused out for working over at work cause she is ready to go. She hasn't worked in 27 years and has no idea what it is like trying to be a full time mother and work 42+ hours a week. Yet she always tells me what a piece of crap i am. can anyone give me any helpful advice?

2006-10-25 08:02:54 · 9 answers · asked by littlered 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

has it changed from 50%

2006-10-25 08:02:28 · 23 answers · asked by I'm better than you 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 08:02:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like stare aat him and smile or try to talk to him even if you r really shy

2006-10-25 08:02:22 · 3 answers · asked by shortymindless_2009 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is a long story cut short. We met online and chatted for about six months got to know each other. And then we met and got along reasonably well the first month and then she wanted to get married to me. Although I loved her I had to say no because we ve only just met although the online relationship was six months long. Plus she kept talking/texting to her ex boyfriends even though I asked her not to.Well I caught her texting, emailing and even sending gifts to her exboyfriends behind my back.I still loved her but my mind always cautioned me about marrying her. She even started being abusive sometimes. She scratched me threw things at me etc.. So one day i thought i had enough we should stop this nonsense. Then we did. Shes gone now for more than a year. She is still texting me and I have told her its over, she wouldnt have it,..what am i to do? Dont get me wrong I loved her, treated her the best way I can,....but it has been too much

2006-10-25 08:02:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cheating with his 1st cousin!! And this had been going on for a year before I knew it. He has now filed for bankruptcy,w/o notifing me and now his ha been discharged and I guess I now have to pay and file too. So as you all know I want to make him squeel like a like pig!

2006-10-25 08:01:31 · 10 answers · asked by cindy s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am too cheap to buy a wedding unity candle so I got a nice plain white candle from AC moore that is the proper size. It's just under 3" in diameter so I wanted to glue flat back crystals to it to make it fancy and the "proper" size for the candle holder. I know normally with candles you use wax but they crystals are small and I have 100s of them (got them for free!). I wanted to cover the whole candle. I don't have a problem with gluing 1,000 crystals to a candle (gives me an excuse to watch tv) but what can I uses as the "glue". Do they make special candle glue??

2006-10-25 08:01:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

and if so why is that

2006-10-25 08:01:12 · 22 answers · asked by nikko 1 in Singles & Dating

If I'm at a party and my ex that I hate is there how do I make him jeaous? And PLEASE no one say "Don't do that how would you feel blah blah blah".

2006-10-25 08:00:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are hanging out for the first time tonight, just the two of us. We are looking for inexpensive things to do...any suggestions? The weather is sunny and about 50 degrees or a little cooler. We tend not to like hanging out at each others' houses and kind of want something out of the house to do...

2006-10-25 08:00:16 · 7 answers · asked by JitterBug589 3 in Singles & Dating

my sis did marriage frm her choice at 4 may ,on 5th it happend hot talk between that boy n my family members after that i came 2 usa ,now that boy is teasing my sis wn i or any body frm my family wanna talk 2 my sis he cut the phone he always pass comment on my sis wtever we sad in anger .he don't want that any of us hv contact wd my sis wt should i do i hv only ph.no of my sis don't hv address .pls advise hw should i help my sis...

2006-10-25 08:00:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 08:00:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Guess the blanks and see if your right!! It's hard but I know you can do it... Its fun go ahead and try it!!

2006-10-25 07:59:37 · 6 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

Officially seperate after you have tried everything to solve the marriage? You have 3 children all under 5

2006-10-25 07:59:32 · 20 answers · asked by jules 4 in Marriage & Divorce