this girl wants to fight me and i don't even know her.?

Question

this girl i don't even know wants to fight me.

ok if you saw me youd know i'm not those fighting type of people. i never fought before in my life. and no i'm not gonna start.

i don't wanna sound like pussy but i'm scared. she is TEN times bigger than me and fought a lot of people.

i don't even KNOW this kid.

what can i do?

i don't think she's a bully.. she doesn't pick on people just like that.

i think she's trying to give me the message she doesn't like me because she always sits in the back of the classroom and today she sat next to me. i said excuse me cus i needed to get out and smiled at her and she gave me the most dirtyest look ever.

Answer 1

Sounds like to me the reason she wants to fight you is because you are smaller and she knows you don't fight. Thats what bullies do. They pick on the ones they know they can hurt. Usually, there is something that makes them do it. Maybe you looked at her one day and that would be enough to piss them off. If your in school I suggest that you always walk out with friends or let one of your teachers know. Tell them to please watch you for the next few days when your walking out of school. Stay around a lot of people, grown ups would be the best. Once a bully has you in their sights its hard to shake them. Eventually she will find someone else to bully and forget about you.

Answer 2

Bullies like this usually have big issues or problems at home and picking on people like you makes them feel powerful. Its really sad situation. If you are in school and this is going on I would go to the counselor and ask if they could call this kid in the office with the two of you and "TALK" about why she is picking on you and let her know you are sorry if she is having a hard time - she may just need a friend.
I had a girl do this to me once and I never told anyone because I didnt want to be the nark. She wound up starting a fight with me in the halls of our shcool and I was scared to death-but, didnt back down and held my own. The teachers broke us up, we went to the office and of course got licks-but, she and I talked and I told her even though she was being mean to me I was sorry for whatever it was that was going on in her life she felt she had to bully people around(which there was lots of things happening to her in her life) and you know she respected me for talking to her and we became good friends after that.

Dont keep this to yourself-this day and time you never know what these troubled kids will do to ya. If you are not in a school setting then call the police and get a restraining order.

Good luck hon

Answer 3

Hmm that's a dilly of a pickle all right. If you rat to your teachers or parents, you might get it even worse. The only thing I can tell ya is don't let her know how scared you are. If she thinks you're ready to give her a good fight, maybe she'll back down a little. Good luck.

Answer 4

Talk to someone who you know can nip this in the butt.Like a teacher or a parent who can get yall together and see where the problem lies.I was in the same situation in eight grade I was hearing from people that this girl wanted to fight me and i did'nt know her either.Then I had a friend to tell the girl she heard that she wanted to fight me and ask her why.But she did'nt know the girl was my friend.She told her it was because of a boy in our science class she liked but him and i sat next to eachother and he would always talk to me.So the reason she wanted to fight me was really because of jealousy.Because i feel if someone wants to fight someonelse for no reason it has to be jealousy or a misunderstanding.Hope this helped.

Answer 5

I went through the same thing in High School, its just a way for girls who are jealous of you too intimidate you. She might not even fight you if she hits you, press charges on her. That will hurt her much more than she hurt you. Plus you can have some extra $ for having to deal w/ such a stupid girl!! Good Luck!!

Answer 6

That happens to me alot. Just ignore her. Don't do anything to provoke her and if shes talkin mess, just walk away if you dont wanna hear it. Also, don't talk about her to other people. Its most likely gonna get back to her and it'll definetely make her want to fight you. Most the time when a person who doesn't know you wants to fight, theyre just talkin a whole bunch of mess and they probably aren't gonna do anything anyway

Answer 7

Sux to be you.

I was here a few times. 6th grade, ended up trying to avoid but it got worse until i was invited to fight at 3pm in front of everyone.
All because i was lighter skinned and new student from california at a Georgia ghetto school.

It was like me vs Shaq. He also was rumored to have broken some kids collar bone.
Anyway, i told the teach and she told me to exit the teachers exit and go around to catch the bus, but i didnt bc i knew it was cowardly. So i went out by myself like 'dead man walking' and just as i was coming out to meet him, some tall skinny dirty kid comes up behind me and ask if im scared and if i want him to fight him.. before i could answer he runs right past me down the steps into the dirt field then picks up speed and does a flying leap into the kid, knocks him over and starts beatin the sht out of him, then gets up and runs off.

I never saw him again.

My advice to you is to avoid without saying anything, and if u have to fight...surprise her and strike first in the nose, fast and hard and wail away, dont plant your feet in one place and keep moving, dont grapple or wrestle.

Good luck

Answer 8

There seems to be a pea brained bully in every crowd! Let a teacher or parent handle it.

Answer 9

if she gets in your face just headbutt her in her nose. she won't expect it and you could bust her nose like that. after she's covering her face throw a left or right hook. don't forget to turn your hips when you do it because that will generate the power you need to knock her out. after she's down just stand over her and say "Now what, *****!" good luck!

Answer 10

Chick Fight!!!