I have known this guy since like 8th grade, we were really good friends and lovers at one point. I when we were friends i was dating his best friend but there was always like a tension between us, like we wanted to be with each other so bad. When me and my ex broke up me and (we'll call him John) JohnBecame lovers. However it didnt really last long... Both me and him lived seperate lives with seperate friends. The about a year ago I met back up with him and he told me that he had been thinking about me and that he really wanted to be with me. We kissed and held each other (no sex) but when the night was done we went our seperate ways again. I dont know if he was being real when he said that he wanted to be with me or just telling me what i wanted to hear. He was a player when we were younger, when we were on a friend basis and i told him never to play me like that bcuz i liked him no matter how he was, whether he was with me or not.... Anyway so I havent seen him in a year and i know
2006-10-25 08:07:47 · 4 answers · asked by kenz6987 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he lives close by. Hesa all i think about. I cant help but think what if ya know? Should i just forget about him or try to find him.
2006-10-25 08:08:28 · update #1
Track him down...go for lunch or something like that & talk. Here's a story for you:
In Grade 9 I had my first serious relationship. We were each others firsts & all that but my bff and his bff got jealous of the time that we were spending together & plotted against us. We ended up breaking up. We still hung out once & awhile, dated other people went on with our lives.
Then one night we met up again in a crowded bar. When our eyes met it was like everyone else had disappeared. It had been 18 years since we had broken up and we were different people but the sparks flew. We sat up talking...no really talking nothing else for 2 days straight.
And now 5 years after that meeting we are still together, married with a wonderful son. All I can say that if it meant to be it will be.
Good luck on finding your happily ever after...
2006-10-25 09:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact him. We only live once and it's true about us all being players as kids. I was! LOL I doesn't sound like he was being insicere with you. He would have tried to get down your pants if he was trying to play you. So, go for it! What is the worse that can happen? At least you will have tried and you won't live your life thinking about what could have been. Take care.
2006-10-25 08:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember him and move on.
2006-10-25 08:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sue Chef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a chance......We are all players when we are KIDS!!!!
2006-10-25 08:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋