I've recently noticed that my husband's sexual appetite changes when he's been out drinking. I notice when we're out together he gets flirted with a lot. I don't mind it because I think it's kinda funny when he points to me and tells them "that's who I'm hoping to take home with me tonight" & they walk away sulking. What I understand he does the same thing when I'm not there (the 2ce a year he does go out w/out me), he tells them he's unavailable for anything but a dance.
Either way when he comes home, he's an animal in bed. Our sex life is very healthy normally & I refuse him nothing ever! But it seems like when he's been flirted with & he's been drinking he's a totally different person in bed. I've never really minded it, but it's been concerning me lately.
Do you think it's just because he's got all that extra testerone & ego left over from a night of being hit on, do you think it's the alcohol, maybe a little bit of both, should I be worried that he's bored with me?
2006-10-25 08:08:32 · 12 answers · asked by Heather S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband is similar. I think that he just gets an ego boost and feels more sexy and powerful when other women find him attractive and wants to show it. The alcohol just intensifies the effect. I mean think about it...when an attractive man shows you attention don't you get a bit of a glow inside?
2006-10-26 07:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetteach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 22:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing to my husband. I think he actually likes it. Anyways if I want to go out and he doesn't he just says go ahead....call me if you need a ride.....because he knows he is going to get one heck of a ride when I get home!
I think it is an ego thing. Makes me feel good when I can peak another guys interest. I know where I'm getting mine though so it is all in good fun.
2006-10-25 08:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by raygun1993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just the pent up hornyness of thinking about all those women. Same as watching porn.
No one eats the same food every day, if you did then you would go crazy about something different.
He is using his fantasies to fuel YOUR pleasure so I would go with it and just be glad that he is so into you.
2006-10-25 08:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That last part is right on the money, except that he is not bored with you. If that was the case, he'd take one of those girls up on their offer. He comes home to you. Just enjoy it.
2006-10-25 08:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much. It might be a bit of the ego... my guess it's mostly the alcohol.... I get like that too - lol
2006-10-25 08:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by ice_princess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its mostly the alcohol~ at least when he goes out he comes home to you. Thats whats important!
2006-10-25 08:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by BellaRia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were to guess, i would say that when he comes home and gets you on all 4's, he's thinking about one of the hot chicks he was groping on at the club and pounding the tar out of you.
2006-10-25 08:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by CuriousB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yal drinking makes me get worked up an real outgoing towards men! but believe what ever you want to....
2006-10-25 08:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too many people I know that DON'T act like that when they're drinking ... !
2006-10-25 08:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋