I found out that the woman i am in love with is a virgin. When and if we get married how can i make it as comfortalbe for her as possible. Any advise would be great.
2006-10-25 08:06:05 · 22 answers · asked by DaveW 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be gentle! If you're planning on using a condom, use a pre-lubricated one. If you're not using a condom, use the KY warming lubrication. It well help ease you in, and the warmth will help to stimulate her & relax her blood vessels & tissue in her vagina. Encourage her to talk to you & let you know what feels good, what doesn't, what hurts. Ensure her that you want your first time together as pleasurable to her as possible. Make it all about her, then later you two can make it more about both of you.
2006-10-25 08:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by karime444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before: Let her know that you respect her to the fullest for deciding to wait until marriage.
After: When you are making love to your wife, just be gentle with her. No matter how anxious you might be, keep in mind that this is a first for her.
Feel privileged that you are marrying such a woman. That's hard to find.
2006-10-25 15:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow- Make sure you ask her if shes comfortable with the situation and don't pressure her. Make her want to make the first move and make sure she's ready! That's awesome you are sticking by her! Most men would run in the opposite direction.
2006-10-25 15:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alesha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be your guide and both of you will experience "Heaven on Earth". I must say this is a Godly way to start a marriage of honesty and trust considering virgins are very rare in today's society.
2006-10-25 15:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEEEHEEE!!!!! That is awesome......Don't unwrap the present before the wedding night. That is wonderful for you and her.
The first time for her will be painful so you will need to be understanding and patient.
2006-10-25 15:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her take control don't force anything on her. Give her suggestions but if she doesn't like it then drop the subject.
2006-10-25 15:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by tjnw79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow... pay attention to her facial expressions if she cringes ask her if she is ok... is it too deep or whatnot... and most definately tell her you love her... and not just at the beginning and the end... and make sure she knows that she is beautiful... and loved...
2006-10-25 15:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by jeans0079 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic & gentle.
I commend you for letting her wait until her wedding night.
Good luck and have fun!
2006-10-25 15:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mahira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna be totally fine. Take it emotionally slow and let her know, beforehand, how much you love her.
2006-10-25 15:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be loving and get plenty of products if need be like ky jelly.
our bodies are magical remember women do have babies so as long as you loving and gentle she should be ok.
2006-10-25 15:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by porsha226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋