Officially seperate after you have tried everything to solve the marriage? You have 3 children all under 5
2006-10-25 07:59:32 · 20 answers · asked by jules 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
one more thing i am only asking what you would do if you were in the situation i am not asking to make my deicisons for me.
2006-10-25 08:07:06 · update #1
one more thing i am only asking what you would do if you were in the situation i am not asking to make my deicisons for me.
2006-10-25 08:07:11 · update #2
I am in the same boat as you, also have 3 kids, at home mom and no finiacial income, but I feel that no one can make that decsion for us, I don't love my husband either and think I am waiting to win the lotto to make the decision to leave, but deep down inside I think I am scared, every day I pray that something right will come my way and make it easier for me like him maybe leaving me for some other woman, my dreams would be answered but he has said he won't leave, i must go with kids and I will have nothing so there is abit of a fear factor
2006-10-25 21:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by funkycoldmedina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do so many people ask "should I leave him" type questions on here?
1. How the fuch are we supposed to know? All we see is a single question, a paragraph at most.
2. There are so many people who blurt out "dump him" after seeing such a vague description of the problem. What a shame.
3. Most people who ask this question are, I believe, simply trying to get a few people to say "go ahead, it's ok" in order to ease their guilt.
Just my $0.02 worth.....
2006-10-25 08:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people stay together 'because of the kids' its an excuse. I speak from experience when I say kids are a lot better off in a house with no rows or tension. After walking on eggshells for months, mine thrived once we had left. If you really have given it your best shot, walk away. If you really love your kids you will give them a peaceful home environment.
2006-10-25 08:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know without a doubt that you don't love you husband anymore, then you need to let him go. Just make sure that any other man that you let into your life doesn't abuse your children in anyway. Good luck!
2006-10-25 08:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying together for the sake of the kids is antiquated bulls*it. Better to get out now than subject them to a life of misery or a split later on. the older your kids are, the harder they'll take it.
2006-10-25 08:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once children are in the picture, your lack of romantic feelings are irrelevant. Children need both their parents. Become happy roommates if you have to, but hang in there for them.
2006-10-25 08:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a weirdly worded question. Anyway, you need to decide this for yourself - none of us in here are qualified. I'm married and happy and we don't have children so I can't relate.
2006-10-25 08:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's really sad. Those poor kids will suffer if you and your ex don't buck up and handle the co-parenting issues as adults.
Good luck to you!
2006-10-25 08:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been there n done that with 5 kids.....
do u want ur kids to grow up in a house where they get to the stage that realise that mummy n daddy dont love each other.....
easier for them if daddy visits n no arguments
2006-10-25 08:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by JACQUELINE D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG sorry for da pain time heals all wounds
2006-10-25 08:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋