Me and my ex (i just broke up with him) have this amazing thing when we hug,talk,kiss and even look at eachother. What's between us is really one of a kind and i feel i've made a huge mistake by hurting him.. i want him to be happy.. i can live easily without him, i don't really need him, i love him. And it's not a question about moving on or not, but why just settle for happy while we can be having an amazing time together ? I dont know if the feelings are now mutual since i've hurt him by telling him i had no feelings for him anymore, last time we talked was for him to pass by to take his sweater back (dont know if its a sign of wanting to see me or getting over me).. All i know is we're meant to be together.. is the ball in my court right now? is he waiting for my call to see if we're supposed to be together, if i'm worth it? is he ignoring me just like i am ignoring him?
2006-10-25
07:39:14
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Karine
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➔ Singles & Dating
he did put on his nickname on msn two days later the "Letting the cables sleep" by Bush lyrics for me .. i dont know he shows that he cares ,then the other second the complete opposite.. that's how i think he's going through the same as me , cause that's what i do to make him come back.. i need really good advice on this
2006-10-25
07:40:45 ·
update #1
what i'm trying to say is that i really love him, i dont want him back because i feel dependant of him. that's not love.
2006-10-25
07:48:52 ·
update #2
I feel asleep reading the question. Snoozefest!!
2006-10-25 07:46:26
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answered by Anonymous
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You should stop this foolishness and just call him. You two need to talk all of these things through! I think that he is trying to show something to you, particularly by posting the lyrics you like on the Internet, and you need to alert him to the fact that you have taken note of this. From the way you make it sound, it definitely seems like you two are meant to be together. Do not let another single moment slip away. Go get 'em girl. Good luck!
2006-10-25 14:46:46
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answered by Justin 3
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I dont know since how long you have this relationship going...
if it is a few years old, and you like him and more importantly he loves or cares for you, then i advice you to continue the relationship because no one in this world is perfect.
Even if you break and find a new BF you still won't find a perfect person and i think you wont feel happy,
But if your husband or boyfriend is not trusting then go ahead and break free....
God bless you.
2006-10-25 14:46:39
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answered by paffasd 2
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....."have this amazing thing when we hug,talk,kiss and even look at each other. What's between us is really one of a kind"......
What's your problem woman......millions of people would love to be able to say these words about someone. You have everything going for you, yet you break up with the guy? What more do you want?
That's the question.
2006-10-25 14:46:26
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answered by Anonymous
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The ball is in your court. You broke up with him, so your actions ended the relationship, he has no reason to believe that you want to return to a relationship that only a few days ago you ended. If you go back to him the ball is then in his court to decided if you are really committed to the relationship since you gave it up so easily the first time.
2006-10-25 14:44:40
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answered by The Teacher 6
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Man you have alot of growing up to do. Your such a typical girl! Why the hell would you play with a guys head like that when he loves you? How f-ucked up is your head? He deserves way better then you and I hope he soon realizes it. Grrrr I hate dumb immature girls like you that play your little head games!
2006-10-25 14:47:07
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answered by Anonymous
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The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference. If you feel indifferent towards him, let him go. If you really do care about him, allow him to find a woman who will love him, not just tolerate him.
2006-10-25 14:43:43
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answered by Semi-charmed 4
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If you don't need him and can easily live without him then you DONT love him. Let him go because he deserves a woman who can love him the way he deserves to be loved.
2006-10-25 14:41:44
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answered by Phaylynn 5
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you have issues, why would you say to someone that is special to you that you "dont have feelings for him".
The ball is in your court, if you want him back you have to appoligize to him for hurting him, than ask for forgiveness, if he forgives you than maybe you can have what you had.
It won't be the same because of the hurt
2006-10-25 14:44:58
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answered by RENO 2
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Well why did you break up with him in the first place? Odds are if you get back together you'll break up for the same reason later on.
2006-10-25 14:41:26
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answered by Maleah 2
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Enough already....you ditched him and you said you don't need him....If i were him I would cut bait and run to the next woman that would love me for me...
Sounds to me like you need to grow up and yes you probably did hurt him and if he did take you back, it would be in the back of his mind constantly---will she do it again?
Get a life and grow up! Time to move on.....
2006-10-25 14:52:16
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answered by 2muchcoffee 4
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