in your opinion to sleep with your best friends ex?....lets say that the two are in an on again off again relationship and you know this and they are currently in off again - is it okay?
i dont think its okay but apparently i HAD a best friend who thought so....and if they did what would you do?
2006-10-25 07:47:59 · 22 answers · asked by cookiesmom 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well from my opinion that is so wrong. Your best friend has never been your friend just a fake. How could you ever be friends with her or trust her again. Gosh I would wash my hands of both of them you are a better person then them im sure.
I would probably beat her A** for disrespecting me like that and kick him where it counts.
2006-10-25 07:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were in your position, I wouldn't care about who he dates because he is my ex but she is my "best friend" and she should respect me enough to not date him. There are some women who think like: well the 2 of them aren't together, what's the big deal? to me the big deal is that you are my best friend and you know how I felt about this guy when we were together and now that we are apart you want to add salt to a open wound. What kind of best friend is she? Now, if you just don't care about it thats one thing but if it bothers you then that's something else. You should talk to your friend because eventually this will drive a wedge between the two of you. I pray that it all works out for the 2 of you.
2006-10-25 14:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister married our other sister's ex-boyfriend. It was very wierd for a long time, but now it seems to be ok. The othe sister dated him while they were in school and the sister that married him did not date him until after she was out of college for a few years. It still made for a strange get together whenever the family got together for the first couple of years. And we get together as a family often...every couple of weeks.:)
2006-10-25 14:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by tractor girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing really wrong with it...obviously neither are friends at all, two people who you don't need in your life, or if you think you do, then at least you know how deep they will stick the knife in. I think capitalizing the " HAD " sums up your feelings. Good for you , move on and make some REAL friends.
2006-10-25 14:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by twostories 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, unless there feeling a piece of ***, lol..Just kidding but its really not the best thing to do and you know secrets always get out eventually and a little sex isnt worth losing a best friend.
2006-10-25 14:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally,I would seek a different relationship,or become independent so I could really think about what I want in a person before I would make a quick decision.Think about it,you want to be with someone who wants to be with you and you only.Period!There is no reason to settle for a person who trreats you this way!
2006-10-25 14:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOO that is not ok at all. A real friend wouldnt do that to you. I would say screw them both..they deserve each other and move on. You will never be able to trust either one of them again and it will just remind you of what happened everytime you see them. What a ***** of a friend!
2006-10-25 14:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't sleep with the exes of friends. You're not only breaking the code, but you're settling for someone else's leftovers...
2006-10-25 14:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Deleted 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just to clarify things, you did say that it was your bestfriends ex right? so what is the big deal? they arent together anymore right? so you dont have to worry about anything.. its not like you cheated on your friend just because you've slept with the EX... that is why it is called EX, past is past...
2006-10-25 14:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they cant decide if they want to be ON....... then i would say, do what will benefit you. It is clear she/he doesnt know what she/he wants, so step up to the plate and take a swing. I feel its better to try and swing then just thinking about the swing. So go for it.
2006-10-25 14:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by MAG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋