I think I might be gay how do I deal with it?
2006-10-25 07:21:39 · 12 answers · asked by babyjay_babyjae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be positive before you take any steps in dealing with it. If you find that you are don't tell anyone until you're ready because when it comes out it could be earth shattering depending on how well your family accepts it. When my cousin came out....it wasn't pretty. But maybe your family will be different, try to stay positive.
2006-10-25 07:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well to be honest with you; I have been going through the same thing recently. What I did was I opened up to him but not all at once. Think to yourself 'is he an accepting person?' Ask him if he has any gay friends. Maybe get close to him. If he accepts you, you could ask him out and if he says yes you're in. If he says yes and you feel really awkward in that kind of relationship then you are probably just curious. Hope it helps!
2016-05-22 13:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your scred your mom mike freak out then don't tell how do you thnk your gay. ppl not born gay they just had a lot of gurls around them belive me ur not gay. Also you probaly like to make out with gurls cause thats pretty much all you can do so why be gay lolz. Just **** a guy
2006-10-25 07:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by catwomen322003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are having mixed feelings you can always go to a gay & lesbian counciling center. Everything there is confidential.
2006-10-25 07:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Might??? Well, test the waters before you worry to much about it I guess.
2006-10-25 07:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Embrace it...love yourself for who you are. If you need help dealing, find a support group.
2006-10-25 07:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by noambition 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find out what or who makes you happiest and go from there. If you are gay....you are what you are.
2006-10-25 07:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if that's what you wont to be then you have no choice but to deal with it and if people dont like it tell them to F*** off!
2006-10-25 07:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by mendi-boo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with it hun,deal with it?you make it sound like a bad thing.
2006-10-25 07:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to figure out if you are or not before you open all those doors with your parents
2006-10-25 07:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by notyours 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋