My best friend and I have known each other since elementary school and we started getting really close in freshman year. We've been best friends ever since. I considered her family. Last year she got involved with this boy named Rob. I really liked him at first I've liked all the boyfriends she's had, but Rob seemed nice at first, but then I got to see the real him. He talked crap about me to everyone including my other best friends (that's how I know) and it's immature. He treats her okay, and they're apparently in "love" at 17 or whatever, but the way he treats me is unberable. Everywhere we go, he has to come..I don't think he knows the meaning of girls night. In the past year everywhere I've went with my friend, Rob's been right there. Everyone hates him, I'm just the only one that was able to tell her how I felt, and now our friendship is in pieces, because when I told her, she didn't believe me and called me a liar. A little ridiculous I think. Help?
2006-10-25 07:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she is ur real friend then she will see what a jerk he is but give it more time...but still try to work things out wit her.
2006-10-25 07:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by something_sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't any of your business. IF he treats her ok and she cares about him, then you need to stay out of it!! If you are really her friend, you will support her and be there for her. Trying to come between her and her boyfriend isn't the way to do it!
Hopefully she will recognize that this guy isn't good for her, and when she does, she will need her friends to be there for her. In the meantime, keep your opinions to yourself and let her live her own life!
2006-10-25 14:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur friend thinks he is nice, sweet , kind, and cute but he hasn't show his GF the other side. Tell her u r not going to say anything else about her BF anymore. she well see that u where right!!
2006-10-25 15:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have that power to come in between long time relationships. All you can do is give her space. Dont invite them anywhere and dont tag along. That will give her time to think about him and what he REALLY is. It will also help her realize how it is with you.
2006-10-25 14:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business and stay away from him.
2006-10-25 14:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋