Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

but you are so incredibly attracted to them, it's almost magnetic? Why does it seem like the bad boys are always the ones who drive you wild and the good guys there's not alot of fire? What do you think?

2006-10-22 04:35:57 · 6 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

myself and my husband were living separately due to some problems. now by next month we r going to join together after a counscelling (through court). i feel very much embarrassed about it. nearly it was 18 months of period we didnt speak with each other. many things happened between us. now when i think of getting back to him , i could not able to explain how i feel , how to get through it.

the reason for separation is" He used to constantly abuse me physically and verbally even when I was pregnant. He yells at me, curses me all the time, I don't want to upset him because I know it will start a fight. But these events slowly tore away my self-confidence.
i couldnt able to find what is his problem and what he really wants from me. i adjusted so much with him , i didnt even tell what he does with me to others . only myself and my parents know his original character.

2006-10-22 04:34:48 · 29 answers · asked by hi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,2089-2415692,00.html

2006-10-22 04:34:22 · 15 answers · asked by TheGuru 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girfriend tells her mom,sisterand cousin every detail of our pesonal life. It drives me crazy. Is this normal? I am a private person and can't understand this behavior at all.

2006-10-22 04:34:07 · 15 answers · asked by Brian L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 04:32:57 · 3 answers · asked by shannon p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when ever im around him i cant talk. i get so scared and i turn all red and dont know what to say. can anyone plese give me advice on how to over come this so im not shy around guys anymore?

2006-10-22 04:32:25 · 18 answers · asked by mandymandy 2 in Friends

have sexual relationship with cousins or non-blood related siblings?
cause I just checked my country's criminal code (canada's) and it says incest occurs when a person has sexual relationship with a blood-related parent, child, sibling, grandparent or grandchild

btw, i'm not going to, i'm just wondering

2006-10-22 04:32:08 · 15 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently checked our history on our computer, (we are the only ones using it besides our 7 year old son on occasion). I found sites for male underwear models, erotic male pictures, nude males and male enhancing underwear. We don't have a very active sex life but we work opposite shifts. Now I am a little worried and I'm not sure how to approach him about it. We have 2 children and have been married almost 8 years. I have never known him to have much of a libido but I thought that was just him. Is this a normal thing for men to do? I didn't find any sites that showed pictures of females. I also asked him if he had anyone over that day just to make sure on of his female friends hadn't used our computer. he said he was alone. I'm just looking for another persons perspective. I don't want to ask friends or family.

2006-10-22 04:31:54 · 14 answers · asked by shell 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have alway looked ocasionally, but in the last couple of months it has been excessive. An hour or two a day (almost daily) looking at 18-22 yo girls with no contact. I did not consider it cheating because I never thought of any contact, just looking. I have looked at it and avoided quality time with my family. My wife has found out and wants to leave me. I want to change it, and I am determined to change it. Can or should she forgive me? Our relationship has been rocky for quite some time, but I want to stop being selfish and fix our relationship. Is it possible???

2006-10-22 04:31:36 · 21 answers · asked by Jason M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 16 & he's 17.I have been in a rela for 8 mon.Last week my bf got to school late,he told me the reason he was late was because he couldn't find a ride so he had to catch a ride with one of his ex's.That already made me suspecious. Then he tells me her car broke down near he's house.As soon as there car broke down he's other ex drove down the road & got into a car accident close by. So he went over to see if she was ok. After she said she was fine, he went back to the broken down car with he's other ex. A cop pulled up to the accident. It was my dad. He asked my bf's ex the one who was in the accident what happened. She told him I was droping Stephen off & ect. Let me fill you in STEPHEN is my bf.It was 7:40 in the morning & from what his ex is telling my dad my bf was getting droped of by her. WHERE THE HELL WAS HE WITH HE'S EX AT 7:40 A.M, GETTING DROPED OFF AT HE"S HOUSE!? That's the real question. He denied that he ever got a ride from he's ex who got in a reck just he's other ex.

2006-10-22 04:31:23 · 19 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 04:29:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why is it when your in a job, there always has to be some sort of purke sort of speak to get ahead? How do these ppl live with themselves on a daily basis knowning they brown nose higher management to get ahead? It is so clear to others what they are doing? Politics ?? Someone said to me, " Ahhh just play the game" I thought about this and I can't brown nose to get ahead. This is not a interpersonal skill but a sorry excuse to get ahead. Why can't management see who their dedicated workers are and reliable rather than see someone who brown noses? This question has been on my mind from time to time when i see it happening or when i see someone who deserves a promotion gets overlooked, especially when they are more than qualified.

2006-10-22 04:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by PureLife 2 in Friends

Okay, i like this guy, he is so hot, best hair, eyes, smile EVER! And he talks to me as a friend..And he has a girlfriend...that doesnt trust him...and one of my best friends would prolley never talk to me again if i went out with him...what do i do?

2006-10-22 04:28:24 · 8 answers · asked by The solving wiz 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months. I really love him and as far as I know he loves me too. What can I do to make our relationship stronger? We talk maybe once a week on the phone and email every day. I just don't wanna lose him to another girl that lives closer. Any advice?

2006-10-22 04:27:57 · 11 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 04:27:50 · 11 answers · asked by Shortie of '07 1 in Singles & Dating

they keep hasling me about what i want for my birthday, but i dont know! does anybody have any suggestions for a good present!

2006-10-22 04:26:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-22 04:26:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

after 5 years of non-existence, suddenly she called out of nothing and start emailing and chat with me. She's single again now, after having divorced for the 3rd times. What could this mean? I try to respect her, I don't want to hurt her feeling, but I m afraid I don't want her to get involved again with my life. What should I do?

2006-10-22 04:25:56 · 38 answers · asked by waterpure2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK. So, Im on a mission to try and talk to guys that Im interested in when I go out. I, like a lot of people, have not guts when it comes to talking to guys I like. The problem is, I get a lot of guys coming to talk to me (mainly jerks who just want to get laid) that I am not interested in. My theory is, the nice guys I want to meet may not be the type of guys who will come talk to me, so I need to make a move to get what I want. Now.....my question. Whats a good way to start a conversation with a guy? I know I cant just prance right up and say "Hi, my name is..." How can I get a feel for if theyre interested before I jump in?

2006-10-22 04:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Singles & Dating

people are ignoring me, my friends aren't answering my mail, my brother is being nice to me.

2006-10-22 04:24:29 · 4 answers · asked by miley-cy 1 in Friends

2006-10-22 04:23:36 · 27 answers · asked by Crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

If I go I might be able to stop her from making a huge mistake. I have high moral standards, hers are slipping. I can't condone infidelity, it's a friendship breaker for me.

2006-10-22 04:23:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is an exchange student (or something like that) from China and he doesn't have any family in the US. My mom suggested to me yesterday that I invite him over to our house for Thanksgiving day and dinner so that they (Mom and Dad) can meet him officially. I think this sounds like a brilliant idea. But some of my other family (Aunt, Uncle, Grandma) are going to be there, as well as a couple of neighbor families that we've known forever (one is a crazy Brittish guy and his grown kids, and the other is a family with two little girls aged 5 and 7). Let's jus say it'll be a wee bit cozy, but space really isn't the issue.
How can I make sure that the guests (especially my blood relatives and the little kids) don't ask questions that could possibly be akward and embaressing for me and my guy? Also, my family is a little off the wall, how do I make the entire ordeal less tramautic for both of us?

Oh, and how should I ask him and tell him about all the other guests?

Thank you!

2006-10-22 04:23:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel i have nothing in common with anyone...i am shy and want to chat with people i meet but i cant bring the "barriers" down, and end up sitting there in silence not knowing what to say....
yet i love people, and would do anything to help them but feel so awkward,,, maybe because i was ignored as a kid and unloved?

am i a weirdo..?

2006-10-22 04:22:37 · 25 answers · asked by robert s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 22 and my boyfriend is 33 i have a lot of friends who are a little younger than me and he hates them. he told me that if i wanted to be with him, i would quit hanging out with them because they are bad influences. he doesnt like the partying we do because of course he has kind of grown out of that stage, but yet he loves me. when i am with him we dont party at all and i keep all my bad habits away from him out of respect even though he knows i do them. im just not sure if i should just decide to grow up and get rid of the partying days and try to settle down, or just keep things the way they are. i am so confused. can anyone please help me out?????

2006-10-22 04:21:57 · 14 answers · asked by sexybeeotch 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my coworkers has had some real terrible relationshiips, we currently live together she drives me car and I provide any and everything she desires. I bend over backwards for this girl like you dont know. This girl is not perfect but I have grown to like her and I have always told her I would treat her like a queen. Well her last boyfriend kicked her out on the street with nowhere to live, a friend put her up for a few days but then this friend told her time was up and she had to go. She now lives with me, I have spent quite a bit of money on her, without me asking for anything in return (sex). Well yesterday we got to talking and she says to me I hope your not hoping for any kind of relationship. This was like a dagger in the heart, I could not even respond to this comment. Now im wondering should I just cut her loose or continue being the gentleman I am and continue helping her and hope we can have a relationship despite this, or is she just playing for a sucka.

2006-10-22 04:21:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My two best friends start dating and it feels so weird. so what would you do if your in such a situation?

2006-10-22 04:20:25 · 26 answers · asked by jdcgeovani 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 04:20:17 · 46 answers · asked by lippomercy 1 in Singles & Dating

When there are no more Good night Kisses, limited hugs and no hand holding. Laughter is from tv and not conversation, going to bed at different times, Getting tired of verbal slams, putdowns of beliefs, generally certain points of animosity. Children raised, job done, tired of it all. Ride it out or bail???

2006-10-22 04:19:41 · 22 answers · asked by pinewhispers1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or it develops over a period of time after she starts to get to know him

2006-10-22 04:19:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating