or it develops over a period of time after she starts to get to know him
2006-10-22 04:19:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from my experience if their is not the initial attraction then nothing will really come of it. but just because there is an attraction doesnt mean they have a personality to match!
2006-10-22 05:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can feel deep lust for a man in the first three seconds of meeting him but this can vanish in another 3 seconds if his personality is not as attractive as his face/body.
I can also meet a man who I find OK to look at and fall deeply in love with his personality once I know him!
After I have known him for a while and I start to know him then I trust my feelings!
2006-10-22 11:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nicola H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be some physical attraction first but desire for a man can take months. Personality always comes first when i look for a man
2006-10-22 11:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust i guess is instant, hence the 'second look' 'double take', when you see a guy and just look back and he does the same and you're both like WOW. Love i think is a bit of a longer process.
2006-10-22 13:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is definitely an attraction that takes place in the first 3 seconds....but falling in love is a totally diferent story. that does take time.
2006-10-22 11:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by canada grl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both but usually the one that she develops over time lasts longer
2006-10-22 11:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you see a reeeally good looking guy it takes a minute or two but I enjoy getting to know him more and seeing if he's worth it or not.
2006-10-22 11:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by katem1992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually not in a few seconds. More like a few months for me. I don't fall for looks alone.
2006-10-22 11:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can happen and it has. it's happend to me. my friend introduced me to this guy and i was like "o god i'm going to get into something w/ this guy!" and i did. but it usually takes a littlle time. girls like to take time to know someone b4 jumping into a relationship. and b4 sometimes even considering it.
2006-10-22 11:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by Emy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know mate it can be hard to know what is in women mind you might think you know but you're wrong
2006-10-22 11:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋