when ever im around him i cant talk. i get so scared and i turn all red and dont know what to say. can anyone plese give me advice on how to over come this so im not shy around guys anymore?
2006-10-22 04:32:25 · 18 answers · asked by mandymandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop thinking that he is so wonderful. That is why you get so flustered. Because in your mind you've built him up to be something so extraordinary. He's just a guy, just a boy, and if things don't work out with him another guy will be around the corner. Guys are a dime a dozen when you're in high school.
Get what I'm saying? Just don't make him out to be so special & you won't be so nervous.
2006-10-22 04:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, although it's ages ago it happened to me. I know (I am 58 now) that it most probably will pass, but that comment wont help you right now. A way to help you overcome the awe or nerves might be to make a mental picture of him (or, in the future, of an intimidating boss) sitting on the toilet in the morning, wrinkled pyjama pants at his feet.. It will make you smile, in stead of nervous. He is just human, just like you are. And don't worry about the turning red... most men (and boys) may find it charming!
Good luck and best wishes from Holland!!
2006-10-22 12:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by icqanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello there =)
Dont worry i too have this prob last time. I would turn all red and blush till my face turned red. But then i overcame it by just getting used to talking to boys. When i talk to the guy that i like, i also would turn red. But then i controled it cuz i dont want him to think i was too shy to talk to him as boys wont really fance trying to talk to a girl who goes all red unless he likes u =)
i guess its about practice and getting used to.
good luck !
2006-10-22 11:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by popsicle g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he like you????? Does he talk to you???
If he is showing interest and ou want to get to know him...
jump in with both feet.
No guys like a girl who stares stupidly and has nothing to give to the conversation..... boring and juvenile....
Say hello, shake his hand, introduce yourself, Ask him his name,
other info etc. make small talk until you get a sense of who he is , then if there is a connection between you two, go from there....
Waiting around and what if's get you nowhere...... jump in
2006-10-22 11:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel im just like u. the only thing i can tell u is ur going 2 have live it and so will the guys they wont care they will just like that u r talking 2 them and dont care how u look
2006-10-22 11:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by maygennick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always red so in the morning i put some cover-up that's lighter then my face so my face isn't so red. and try just saying hi then if u want to have a conversation write it down the night before and practice in front of the mirror practice a bunch of conversations so u will always talk about something don't say something weird about yourself first. and in a while you won't have to practice..
*** be yourself!!!
2006-10-22 11:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by maya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in yourself. I was that way once. When I realized that I was worth something and what I had to say mattered I began to blossom and bloom. Alot times it is our feelings of self worth that stop us from being who we really are. On the other hand there are times I still get tongue tied meeting someone. Its natural and if you accept it then you can go on.
2006-10-22 11:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by newtooocala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to think of them,just like you would a girlfriend!You don,t get shy around them,Right!so,when you see a boy you like,Look at him as a girlfriend,Seriously,and this may help you with your shyness!also,i was shy,when I was young and what helped me was looking poeple straight in the eyes and beleave me,you will be amazed at how shy other poeple are also!boys get wicked shy around girls they like at that age,and sometimes it makes them act Goofy and Do silly things!just everybody has a different way at Looking at things!Hollywood
2006-10-22 11:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI SCARE: U HAVE TO RELAX TAKE A SLOW BREATH DON'T PANIC WHEN U SEE HIM BUT DOES HE HAVE A GIRL FRIEND ? DON'T LIKE A GUY 4 HIS LOOKS WHAT CAN BE BEHIND THOSE LOOKS ? BE HIS FRIEND IS HE IN YOUR CLASS /JOB U DON'T RUN INTO A LION SO FAST U CAN GET BITED. BE FRIENDS THAT WAY U KNOW MORE ABOUT HIM MAYBE A FRIEND CAN INTRODUCE U .GOOD LUCK GOD BLESS
2006-10-22 11:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want any chance to be with this guy, you are going to have to get over your shyness and talk to him. guys cannot read womens minds, so you will have to tell him how you feel. Good luck with it.
2006-10-22 11:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by www.allamericanwarehouse.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋