Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

My boyfriend of seven years has been under employed b/c of a felony. While I know it is hard to locate employment b/c of his past., he continues to smoke marijuana making his cahnces slimmer. I tell him he needs to search for new employment b/c he only works PT and it is not enough to support the one child we have together, bills and my other two children (not his). I find myself caring us all the time and he feels no shame in letting me do so. I have been on him about this for a while as we recently moved into a larger home. I have been agressive about his job searches for the last two months. I am making plans to continue in w/o him (he babysitts the kids alot), I have changed the locks and not given him keys to my home or cars. I keep wishing he will find something but the reality is he might not or won't due to his own circumstances and laziness. Have I already given him to long or just throw his stuff out. It almost seems as though he dosen't care sometimes.

2006-10-22 03:59:34 · 7 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

right...im making this kinda memory/friendship box for 2 of my friends...ive known them 2 yrs and i'm gonna give it to them as part of their xmas prezzie...apart from photos what else could i put inside the box...?

thanks xx

2006-10-22 03:59:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i cheated on my ex then got w this person now i am very unhappy but she is really good to me. she buys me anything i want is always there when i need her but i dont even want to kiss her or have sex with her anymore i have so lost interest wat should i do?

2006-10-22 03:58:42 · 12 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im looking for a satanic church where my fianace and i could get married

2006-10-22 03:58:20 · 8 answers · asked by evilbitch92482 1 in Weddings

or does that just mean you really don't love them, or is it normal? or does it mean your in the process of falling out of love?

2006-10-22 03:57:34 · 13 answers · asked by Pook 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend been going out for a month now and i do love her to the fullest and she does too. But she told me not to get on myspace anymore b/c she scared imma talk to another girl on there, but yet when we go out somewhere with her sister and her friend(which is a dude) she flirt and gives him more affection than me while im there! she also get mad when i'm about to go out with my friends boys and girls and they just friends. what should i do???

2006-10-22 03:56:46 · 6 answers · asked by soutelzfinezt 1 in Singles & Dating

he left his house because of a extra marital affair.

2006-10-22 03:55:44 · 9 answers · asked by bhavna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We also walk w/ eachother to our dif. classes.

2006-10-22 03:54:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is she hyper active?

2006-10-22 03:54:04 · 11 answers · asked by amyamav 1 in Family

2006-10-22 03:52:30 · 2 answers · asked by hjpollock 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, here's the deal. I have been with my husband for seven years, married for a little over two. Back in January, a co-worker and I went away for training for a week. We hung out in my room and drank and one thing led to another, blah, blah, blah. We didn't have sex but we may as well have. Since then, I can't stop thinking about him. The only thing physical that has happen since January is two separate times where we kissed a little. The flirting however is really intense and we have created a "relationship without a relationship" if that makes any sense. I know he likes me too although he has been married for 30 years (he is about 12 years older than me). We have tried to cool it off because we both knkow this isn't right and wil not end well but the cooling off lasted only about two or three days. I am developing real feelings for this guy and I am pretty sure he feels the same. Without changing jobs, how can I make myself not fall in love with him?

2006-10-22 03:51:50 · 30 answers · asked by cantstopnow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So my friend comes to me one day and askes me to go out with him. So I say let me think about it. I just like him as a friend. So I say yes because if he's a good friend, maybe he's a good boyfriend. So we go out for 1 week and one day he says " I hate that I never get to see you, so i don't think we should go out. So I say ok what ever. Then he says he still likes me, and want to hook up. so i say, well i don't know, maybe. Then at this dance we just had he was all up on this girl and acting as if i wasn't even there .......What is rong with boys these days?

2006-10-22 03:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by JACK 1 in Singles & Dating

where it applies, I know we have some really good men around but...
I am getting this feeling sit-in mums (who don't work) are taken more for granted than "working mums" by their husbands. I think because they don't contribute financially to building the families assets, men usually consiously or not, take them for granted.
I also feel that 'sit-in mums' find it HARDER to walk away from unhappy marriages than 'working mums'?
Do you agree with this or not? Why where its relevant to you.

2006-10-22 03:51:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother asked me this question and I did not really know how to answer it. Forget that crap about "well it's not legal if your not married", or "it not morally right". I want a real answer to give him.What is the difference???? He lives with his girlfriend of five years they are both very happy, have a baby, and haev a great relationship. I ask him if he thinks about marriage. He thinks that is what messes up realationships! I work with many older woman, ( I am 27 and married with 2 kids) that are always telling young girls NOT TO GET MARRIED! Why is this?? Please real answers only. Dont bother if your going to say. that legal crap, and bring religion into it!

2006-10-22 03:51:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jm 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I planned my life to move in with my separated boyfriend and look for a job. He wanted to work things out with his wife, so I told him he should. He also said that he felt responsible to me and I should think about things before making a decision. I told him that was it, and I packed up my stuff and my cats and drove 15 hours to my sister's house. She has 3 kids and 6 animals already.

My cat's are hiding and I'm sleeping on a blow up bed in one of the kid's room. It's a weird situation for everyone and I don't know what to do. I'm tempted to call the ex and take him up on his offer until I find a job.

2006-10-22 03:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by torn 3 in Family

2006-10-22 03:50:02 · 20 answers · asked by Butterfly Princess 4 in Family

2006-10-22 03:48:06 · 11 answers · asked by Hacker 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and please don't tell me, "whenever you feel it".. thanks

2006-10-22 03:47:18 · 14 answers · asked by Pook 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do u know if a guy likes u if he is ur friend

2006-10-22 03:46:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 03:44:48 · 29 answers · asked by ChocolateCake 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it important?Whic is the best age to lose it?

2006-10-22 03:44:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i guess i have really always been a jealous person only when it comes to relationships though. Its almost like i expect for my girlfriend to only want to talk to ME and spend time with ME. I get upset if i find out she was on the phone with another boy or even if i find out that she called another one of her friends before calling me. It could possibly be because we do go to diffrent schools nad dont get to see each other often, i dont know i just want her all to myself. I know that this isnt right but i just cant help it...its like a disorder or something. Can anybody else relate to this or have any strategies to help me get over it?

2006-10-22 03:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by Morris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister son is blind now its been three yrs ...he cant able to speak coz of that

2006-10-22 03:44:10 · 2 answers · asked by arif a 1 in Family

hello im looking for a spechial girl nadra ..nadra its me nick ive missed you so much sweetheart ive got fast net plz come on mesenger plz sweety i love and miss you,......

2006-10-22 03:43:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok one is male the other is female but i'm confused i need to know if i should go w my heart or mind?

2006-10-22 03:42:31 · 18 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

In some countries, people first fall in love with each other ,and can produce children and after sometime they marry, but even many of them get divorce.Does it mean that Love can alter when it find alteration in the other person?

2006-10-22 03:42:01 · 7 answers · asked by agni 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have to write a play for my english 101 class and i would like to know where parents stand on spanking. should you as a parent be allowed to spank your child? i would like to have answeres from people who believe that you should and those who belive that we shouldn't. we all know the difference between spanking and abuse but not everyone does.

2006-10-22 03:41:42 · 15 answers · asked by conserned mom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife is telling she did not feel any thing when I touch.
But I am romantic, caring, handsome person.

This is proposal marrige

She did not like to get gifts also from me.
what can I do.

Can I take her to consultant or .....

Pls give serious answers. I am very sad about this.

2006-10-22 03:41:19 · 20 answers · asked by cuteperl16 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night i had a great night with my friends at the beach and i love going to beach even if i didnt know how to swim. We called the beach resort as "ocean pearl" nice name right...?

In fairness the resort was so nice, that were many group of people spending their whole nights in swimming in the cool water at midnight. Some were singing at video karaoke there were who had nice voice and others just for fun.

Well the water was so cool that i started to swim around 11pm and end up to 2:30am non stop, ohhh better to have someone special during that time coz i saw lots of lovers and it seems they were very happy enjoying the water.

So finally we end up 3am and went home around 4am and very tired..but it's ok i enjoyed though, but i still need partner or special someone nextime. "Hope to find him and meet him soon. ive never been to have serious and nice relationship in my life."

2006-10-22 03:40:20 · 18 answers · asked by jacky 3 in Singles & Dating

i went down 2 aberdeen 2 get my stuff frm his flat, while huging m n welcoming me he said nicely " ohhh i missed youuu" then started touching me, n wen he turned me on he apologized saying he cudnt cotrol himself coz m very sexy n we r only frnds, made m get mad n done some stupid stuff. but dont i hve the rite!!! that was very painfull

2006-10-22 03:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by emely A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships