Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

2006-10-22 02:55:37 · 15 answers · asked by treacle1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am divorced 5 yrs- 3 kids
They are not married- live together 7 yrs -2 kids
We have been 'messing around' since January
He knows I have feelings for him- he really cares about me too
I'm afraid of being too trusting, or not trusting enough because of my past.
He has been honest about us from the start
We both set out to have some fun- no strings attached
When I got to know him better I couldnt stop thinking about him and I know I am falling hard
I know there are other men out there, but this is the one that I want
Somer rumors have started at work
He says he wont leave her even though they are not happy because of his 5 yr old son (other child is from her 1st relationship)
I tried breaking off the intimate side of us - but it hurt so bad to try and talk to him as just platonic friends
We work together and I can't not see him - i do not want to not see him either
I cant do anything that would hurt him or his son so i could never tell 'her'
What do I do?

2006-10-22 02:55:23 · 14 answers · asked by 2cls4comfort 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, I talked to him about it, I told him that I've been cheated on before and he said that he has been cheated on too, so I don't have to worry about anything like that, and I don't definately don't have to worry about her. He said he stopped the fling cuz she was dramatic and because he met me, and liked me A LOT. But, the other night (they have been fighting constantly the past week, cuz the roomate still really likes him) they were talking to eachother in her car, while I was asleep. I got upset and left, cuz I thought they were having sex in a place where no one else would find them, but he called me two minutes later and was like, "What's wrong?" I told him, he said I was being silly and he asked me to come back. I did and he was really nice to me when I came back. Could that have been guilt though?

I'm confused. I really like this guy, but it seems like my past is ******* it up.

2006-10-22 02:53:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been seeing my g/f for about a year and a half....i work 12 hours a day from 6 until 6 at night every 4 days and when i come home ( we both stay at her parents house which is ok ) all she does is watch all the soaps on tv, drama etc till about 1030 sometimes. She works from 5:30 pm till 7 mon to fri. Sometimes we have a drink at the weekends but apart from that, thats all she does. We had a row earlier today while i'm at work on the phone because i went to sleep last night at 10:30 because i'm fed up with doing the same thing all the time every night. When i make a suggestion, she says no because there is good things on the tv. Its been like this for ages and she is not willing to compromise....do you think i should finish it

I'm 22 and she is 18

2006-10-22 02:53:04 · 48 answers · asked by Lee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like to flirt a lot with my friends... please give me advise..

2006-10-22 02:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Friends

Me and my ex gf have been together for 10 months. We loved each other alot, and always spent time together, Than within the last 2 months, she started talking to other guys more, put her friends before me, Fought AGAINST me when i had an arguement with one of her friends...

I tried to treat her nicely. She still did the same thing, so I started to accuse her of cheating on me, which seemed like what was going on. Than this caused fights, than she started fighting me over stupid reasons, which lead to the breakup..

I love her and I think we brokeup over dumb reasons, but i begged her back for 3 weeks and she rejected me. Now I moved on, but still want her back. She says shes hanging out with her ex alot, and saying stuff like she kissed him or w/e. And this guy cheated on her twice, and kissed with her sister while they were going out. And I can't beleive she'd do this

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2006-10-22 02:51:11 · 19 answers · asked by Somone 1 in Singles & Dating

Myself, partner a 2 yr old daughter have planned to move to England (from Ireland) in the new yr for a couple of yrs. To save some money, get away from our small town, live life and experience something new and then return to buy a house. I was born in England and have a sister and family there and was really looking forward to going. I find it impossible to get a job here in my field of work. My partners father has just offered to sell us a house (he is building and selling 100's on his farm land as well as a new primary schooll) which we had been waiting for but had given up hope. I know this is a great opportunity to buy from him as we need not worry about going through bank for mortgage and can do it through him. I know it is great to be able to have a new house of our own but I cant help feeling disappointed. I need a break from this town. If we go to England we may lose his offer. Is it best for my family to stay? My partner would like to stay. The house will be ready by new yr

2006-10-22 02:51:00 · 7 answers · asked by Teresa M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 02:50:44 · 7 answers · asked by ice 2 in Singles & Dating

It makes me feel like his love is conditional. If he gets what he wants he loves me to death, if not, then well he just isn't as happy.

2006-10-22 02:47:47 · 20 answers · asked by Christy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

love

2006-10-22 02:45:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I spend my friday evenings with my friends and thats it.

The whole saturday and sunday, I spend with my wife and 3 year old daughter. On Saturday, we go visit my wife's parents or my parents and sometimes my wife or my siblings. Then I take my wife for dinner and a movie. On Sundays be at home and spend time with my daughter and then we go to McDonalds and come home and watch with my daughter a kids movie. In the evening my wife and I take her to places like zoos, museum, parks, picnic etc.

So I'm like the whole Saturday and Sunday with my family. I like it spending more time with my wife and daughter than with friends.

I'm 28 years old.

Is this okay and am I living a normal life or do I need more time with my buddies? But I love spending time with my family. Does all this make me weird

2006-10-22 02:44:30 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family

i kindda like this one guy,and i'm hoping to get jitters everytime i walk past him.The prolem is i did not get jitters from him but i get it from his friend which i don't even have interest.........can some one explain why this happen...

2006-10-22 02:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by rufusclip 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 02:43:54 · 14 answers · asked by bombastic 1 in Singles & Dating

help me soon

2006-10-22 02:42:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm totally depressed. I'm 25 and I still live with them, in Poland, it's normal. But my parrents all the time make me stressed and unhappy. They have been quareling and fighting since I was a little child. I just can't stop them. They just ignore me and torment me with their moods. I feel like they were taking away all my energy, all joy and happiness. My house, my room is not even a safe place, a plece where you would like to return... I feel more comfortable in a hotel room, among total strangers. I'm not sure if I can live with my parents any longer. I'm just tired and don't know what to do... Do you know any supports groups for people like me?

2006-10-22 02:40:59 · 2 answers · asked by Zephyr_Seven 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 02:39:08 · 23 answers · asked by toronto27c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 02:38:52 · 6 answers · asked by Dr Who 1 in Singles & Dating

some people say its when the girl is pregnant and they get married quick and some other people say its when you're forced to get married and you have a shotgun held to you. :-/

2006-10-22 02:37:53 · 23 answers · asked by <3 2 in Weddings

Doesnt your mouths ever get tired?

2006-10-22 02:34:55 · 19 answers · asked by Chief Slapaho 2 in Singles & Dating

I kinna feel said I dont get that much attention as I should from my BF. Hez from CA and I am from Chicago. He calls me once a day. no emails, no webcam, no MSN....when we talk its kinna boring too...
Is that something is wrong in me ? Please help me.

2006-10-22 02:32:40 · 17 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

me n my boyfriend just broke up and i miss him. we both decided we should be friends but i am trying to cover up to everyone i am not upset howerver when i try to do something i cant stop thinking of him i keep crying over nothing it hurts loads yes i am rather young i am 15 but it still hurts and i just want him back. but i know i cant. i just want him to get out of my head because it hurts. if you can help please. xox

2006-10-22 02:32:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about 2 weeks ago i went out to a friends...my bf went to his. i was soo drunk i wanted to sleep there he told me not toand bitched at me
soo at 1 am i took a bus ..waited an hour in the cold...drun kand alone! but i made it hoe for him! last night he went out when i wanted to spend time with him seeing that we havent in a while now. ive waited till 4 for him..he didnt show or answer...now today he still aint here..im soo fed up of him and the way he is he makes me feel unwanted and unloved :( plus last week was on our year anniversary i think its time for a break up? what do u guys think! or am i overreacting

2006-10-22 02:32:21 · 10 answers · asked by SomeOne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love this girl like crazy but i dont believe she sees me as the boyfriend dating type!

she seems to like hanging out with me but when i try to get closer she seems to shrug me off!

how can i get her to notice that i like her but i dont want to say " hey I like you, You wanna Date"

2006-10-22 02:29:38 · 13 answers · asked by mauiwaui16 2 in Singles & Dating

If a woman has a Masters Degree, Great Job, cute and funny, would that be scary?

2006-10-22 02:29:15 · 24 answers · asked by Barbara 6 in Singles & Dating

I met a woman, and we went out and had a great time. She asked ME to meet her and hang out the next weekend. So, I show up at the meeting place, and there's another guy there who is apparently has the same idea I do. I get the impression he thought he was on a date as well...? What the heck? She's an extremely attractive young (27 y o) woman. Did she do this for kicks or what?

2006-10-22 02:28:28 · 18 answers · asked by mu 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 02:26:49 · 6 answers · asked by jazz 2 in Singles & Dating

and my children want to buy me a few prezzie's all I ask is to get a card, and maybe some lillies, I have told them not to spend their money on me but they keep saying they are, how do i get them not to waste their money, (they are 13 & 11) without hurting them, I don't need expensive gifts just a card

2006-10-22 02:24:41 · 29 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Family

mom was pregnent with me he left for another women nevere to return,ive been searching and finally found him i called and recieved an answering machine i called back more then a few times that day all day then the next day and today it just rings did he split what should i do.

2006-10-22 02:24:40 · 8 answers · asked by jenna1 1 in Family

i mean to say on every damn little thing they have something bitter to say...........u get it....

2006-10-22 02:24:25 · 16 answers · asked by rocking arian 1 in Family

i like this girl... she is an exchange student here in america to study.....

I believe i have feelings for this person but im not sure if it would be a good idea to pursue it.....because she will have to return to her own country in 3 years and less....

the problem is that i dont want her to be distracted by me.. she came here to study and i might bother her....

what should i do??

2006-10-22 02:24:21 · 5 answers · asked by mauiwaui16 2 in Singles & Dating