about 2 weeks ago i went out to a friends...my bf went to his. i was soo drunk i wanted to sleep there he told me not toand bitched at me
soo at 1 am i took a bus ..waited an hour in the cold...drun kand alone! but i made it hoe for him! last night he went out when i wanted to spend time with him seeing that we havent in a while now. ive waited till 4 for him..he didnt show or answer...now today he still aint here..im soo fed up of him and the way he is he makes me feel unwanted and unloved :( plus last week was on our year anniversary i think its time for a break up? what do u guys think! or am i overreacting
2006-10-22 02:32:21 · 10 answers · asked by SomeOne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Next time stay at your pal's. Too dangerous to wander around drunk, sweetie. And try talking to him about how he makes you feel. If that don't work, let him know things have to change or you're out of the relationship. If that don't work, buy a pint of ice cream, rent Dirty Dancing and tell him it's over. :)
2006-10-22 02:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it's time for a break up, and I know that really stinks. First of all, you should not have been waiting by yourself for a bus at 1AM-if he wanted to see you so badly, he would have come to get you. Also, he seems to think you are someone he can pull off the shelf when HE wants you around, but when he isn't in the mood, forget you exist. I was in a relationship like that, and frustrated all the time, but happy when we were doing stuff together--it took me way longer to end it than it should have, but it was the best thing I could have done.
2006-10-22 09:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend used to do the exact same thing, not comming home and I got so fed up I gave him the bollocking of his life!!! he doesnt do it anymore but he trys to push my buttons by comming home at like 6 in the morining. Just show him your not a person to be walked all over and that he can't be a hypocrite!! He probably wont appreciate it but explain to him that a relationship is a two way street and if its going to be one way then your walking it without him, so to speak! If he's not going to make an effort then why the he*l should you. Good luck!!!!
2006-10-22 09:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by cherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not over reacting. It was bad for you to be out at that hour waiting alone in an inebriated condition. Now he's gone off and you're left in the cold again. You think it's time for a break? Good idea! Both with him AND THE ALCOHOL !!
2006-10-22 11:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is his way of showing you he didn't like you going to your friend and getting drunk..
He didn't want you to get drunk so he did not want you to sleep at your friend's.
But even then,, since you know you were drunk,,, you should not have left your friends place, that would have placed you in grave danger, for your safety. And he didn't like it but cannot express it.
Talk to him still about the things you are thinking... you are not reacting too much that is normal and even much more bitter because probably you have hangover..
Talk to him so you will know.. if it is time for break up... But it is not that easy.
Good luck!!
2006-10-22 09:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he's disrespecting you like this now, after only a year, and if you feel unwanted and unloved by him after only a year; you need to vacate the relationship. To continue in this relationship, you would only encourage him to treat you worse. Imagine being married to this fellow? He's not worth your time or your tears. And the man who is worth your tears, wont make you cry!
2006-10-22 09:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by kari w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is all about a series of choices we make in life if you feel unwanted and such why would you want to stay is it going to get better .Life is to short to be unhappy but ultimately it is you that needs to make this choice
2006-10-22 10:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him....more fish in the sea. It's obviously OK for him to do whatever he wants, but you need to do what "He" says....that's not OK.....
2006-10-22 09:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by iluvmydogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the loser.....he has shown that he realy does not care about you!
2006-10-22 09:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to breakup,it sounds like he doesn't care
2006-10-22 09:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋