mom was pregnent with me he left for another women nevere to return,ive been searching and finally found him i called and recieved an answering machine i called back more then a few times that day all day then the next day and today it just rings did he split what should i do.
2006-10-22 02:24:40 · 8 answers · asked by jenna1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
...yes i think you should... if he doesnt care about you enough or just doesnt check his messages (hey i dont check mine either and know quite a few people who dont!!!..lol) i think you should keep trying because if its that important to you you shouldnt LET anybody stop you from filling that hole i know you must be feeling in your heart!!!...
you go for it GUrl and if he doesnt have a positive response then you tell him exactly how you feel and leave!!!!... he'll feel less than a man and that... is what he is !!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-10-22 02:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you don't know if he even got your message, if you even left one. you know nothing about this man for all you know he is a truck driver and is not home. so, i think that i would keep trying. give it some more time and if you still can not reach him, write him a letter.if you still have no luck then let it go. i have no idea how old you are, but if your a teen then wait until you get older and find out where he lives and show up at his door. my daughter knows who here dad is and has made many many calls to him with out one return call. so, when she turns 18 she plans on showing up at his door. good luck!! don't give up, this is something you need to do, for your own peace of mind.
2006-10-22 09:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pass judgment if you're not sure as to why he hasn't answered your phone calls. He might be out of town, in a hospital or something else could be hindering his ability to respond to you. Give him some time, but if your continued efforts prove futile you must let him go and get on with your life.
I can tell you are feeling hurt, rejected and confused but you are not responsible for the behavior of your parents. You can only vow to do a better job of taking care of your children if and when the time comes.
2006-10-22 16:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon... I would not waste the time.
My dad left us when I was 3 and I wasted 12 years of my life trying to secure a relationship with him.
Although I regret not having a father, I can't imagine that my life would have worked out any better for me, had he been here to begin with. Things happen for reasons unknown...
Stick close with the family you have - they are your foundation... and they'll always be there for you.
Best wishes.
2006-10-22 09:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by apinkfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be, you have to respect his wishes also. Leave your contact information and a brief message telling him what you want but that it's his decision. Then the ball is in his court. He may contact you and he may not, but know that you tried the best you could. Also know that not getting to know him may be better then getting to know him and finding out he's an awful person. Good Luck.
2006-10-22 14:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps.someone else is getting to the message machine before him.
Keep trying and since you know the phone number, try the address and write how you feel. Ever think of showing up at his door step?
give it to him....
2006-10-22 09:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
persevere if u feels thats the right thing 2 do,good luck
2006-10-22 10:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by kasey c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep seeking contact with your dad. He owes you at least one visit, since he is your dad after all.
2006-10-22 15:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋