I kinna feel said I dont get that much attention as I should from my BF. Hez from CA and I am from Chicago. He calls me once a day. no emails, no webcam, no MSN....when we talk its kinna boring too...
Is that something is wrong in me ? Please help me.
2006-10-22 02:32:40 · 17 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't sound like he is a match for you and no there's nothing wrong with you. You need someone that you have something in common with in order to have a good conversation with.
2006-10-22 02:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f doesn't care about you but he phones you every day!!!
No guy would phone someone every day if he didn't love her, he has to live a life off the phone.
If you continue to be this over needy you're gonna suffocate him, you both need space & time for family, friends and life.
Maybe the problem is you're getting bored with the distance between you both or maybe you have to mature a bit more & realise that relationships change in time & wont be as exciting as they were in the beginning, it's human nature
2006-10-22 09:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the spark is gone. If your conversations once a day are boring then the spark is not there.
Try calling him even if it is to leave a message and surprise him. Send him an IM just because if you see him online. Send him a card in the mail.
If nothing changes then it is time to move on.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-22 09:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WIT YOU! In a relationship you need to be more involved with eachother and with yours you can't be because he lives so far away. There should be more communication too for it to work out. If things don't change I would suggest you just break it off with him! Try to date someone that's more close to you and that you can see and spend time with.
2006-10-22 09:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything is wrong with you. And nothing is wrong with
him either. Lots of guys are like that, they just don't know how to
express them selves.
2006-10-22 09:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big clue. "when we talk its boring"
Uh oh, doesn't sound too good.
Try and find a nice boy nearby.
2006-10-22 09:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong with him darling, my suggestion would be to move on with somebody who is deserving of you!
2006-10-22 09:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by da gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance romance is really hard - find your a local love and move on
2006-10-22 09:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never had any luck with long distance relationships ....maybe you should try to just be friends until you guys can be closer
2006-10-22 09:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there isn't anything wrong with you , you just need to find out if he is cheating on you, and find out fast b4 he end it with u first.
2006-10-22 09:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋