So, I talked to him about it, I told him that I've been cheated on before and he said that he has been cheated on too, so I don't have to worry about anything like that, and I don't definately don't have to worry about her. He said he stopped the fling cuz she was dramatic and because he met me, and liked me A LOT. But, the other night (they have been fighting constantly the past week, cuz the roomate still really likes him) they were talking to eachother in her car, while I was asleep. I got upset and left, cuz I thought they were having sex in a place where no one else would find them, but he called me two minutes later and was like, "What's wrong?" I told him, he said I was being silly and he asked me to come back. I did and he was really nice to me when I came back. Could that have been guilt though?
I'm confused. I really like this guy, but it seems like my past is ******* it up.
2006-10-22 02:53:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, there are more roomates than just her, some of them are brothers. Also, when I saw them in the car, I just waled past, I didn't look, cuz I was afraid too, but now I wish I had and, I think I love him.
2006-10-22 11:22:25 · update #1
Your past? He lives with his former lover. Come on. Guys are weak and he will totally do that chick in a weak moment (and guys seem to have a lot of those) if she still has feelings for him.
Let him go.
2006-10-22 02:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past is past,girlfriend. Needless to make sure if its left behind.
Just focus on where youre going now and whats ahead. If you keep looking back,you are bound to hit something right in the face.
Im sorry to say that a NO is a NO. That man of yours is no good.
His condition will only get you down day after day,night after night.
Give him a chance to move out and start afresh or you simply say ''adíos,amorè!''. Drop the confusion and start speaking up.
For your own sake.
2006-10-22 03:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone learns from the past. But if he had a fling with this guirl and she still likes him and they live together, there is something not right about that. You may trust him and thats good, but if shes still feling him she wont care if hes married she will try anyhting to have him, one day you may not be around and he may get really tempted. you must let him know you trust him but your not comfortable with this gurl being his roommate. its not right in any way shape or form.
2006-10-22 03:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your past has nothing to do with how you are feeling now. i to would feel very uncomfortable if my man was living with his x. i think that you really need to talk with him about this and tell him how this makes you feel. and explain to him that you can not be with him as long as him and the x are sharing a place with each other. because you are not going to drive your self nuts with the what ifs. were they room mates when you began dating him or did they move in after? and to me why was he in her car while you were asleep he should have been laying next to you.seems to me that that was a little sneaky.
2006-10-22 03:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would normally say there is another explanation but unless he is willing to move out I think you should leave him. This type of stuff is bound to get you hurt all it'll take is for him to be angry at you and then without considering the consequences (or being under the influence) it'll happen. Get outta there or get him outta there!
2006-10-22 02:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, wake up!!! This guy is having his cake and eating it too! Until he can find accomodations with a guy-friend, leave him alone. He's not willing to cut the attachments to the old gf. Does that sound right to you? Kick him to the curb. He's not worth the problems you're going to have with him. Godloveya.
2006-10-22 02:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, him living with his ex-fling is NOT a good thing. And why could they not just talk inside. If she does like him still and they live together and you can not always be there she will try to seduce him. I think you have every right to be uneasy.
2006-10-22 02:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its strange your bf wasnt asking whether you have been ok - by way of fact the law enforcement officials have been there! its additionally strange that he surpassed off to be skulking around on the show staring at the place this cop is going. sounds like hes jealous of the guy - it would desire to be by way of fact hes caught in the back of a table, and the different guy gets a gun. surely, your bf might love his job yet whilst it includes macho he's conscious he in simple terms dont decrease it whilst in comparison with a cop. has this cop given him any stick approximately having been with you? tell him he can have confidence you, coach it via removing all your e mail/telephone contacts with the cop. that could desire to coach him you're severe.
2016-10-15 07:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Head 'em up...move 'em out!
2006-10-22 02:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋