i love this girl like crazy but i dont believe she sees me as the boyfriend dating type!
she seems to like hanging out with me but when i try to get closer she seems to shrug me off!
how can i get her to notice that i like her but i dont want to say " hey I like you, You wanna Date"
2006-10-22 02:29:38 · 13 answers · asked by mauiwaui16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first of all dont confuse LOVE with liking alot that is the worst possible thing you can do!!!.. honestly.. if you try to get closer and she moves away then the only thing you can do and talk to her!!!... make sure you do it in a way she would feel comfortable with the two of you sound lyke good friends and you DONT want to ruin that!!!... Maybe that is why she is cautious about your advices... take it slow.. girls like that!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-10-22 02:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well love sick I know how you feel! This a hard one because there many way of dealing with it.
One you could just leave her alone and see if she even notice you are not giving her attention.
Or you could tell her you like her more than just a friend.
Does she have a boyfriend or dating someone else?
Or ask her how does she see you. As a brother or friend? If she says brother it is over for now. That does not mean it won't change later.
But you will have to say something or you will be in limbo forever.
Good luck!
2006-10-22 09:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by redpab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this from a girl that had a guy deeply fall in love with her. and had kinda the same problem but reversed. I had a guy who really loved me, and he was my best friend, i knew he liked me so much. but i didn't want things to get weird if he ever asked me out because i only saw him as my best friend. So I never put myself in that situation to talk about us dating. He settled for just being friends because he figured that being friends was better than not having anything at all. At the time I was unsure about how i felt about him, but now i really regret not ever giving him a chance to ask me out because he moved away and i hate that i cant see him or talk to him. He later told me everything about how me felt and he told me that sometimes you just have to take chances in life, and one of those chances will be "will she say yes?" If not, you will always wonder what might have been. If you give her time and space to think about what she wants or how she feels, she will probably come around to feel the same way. Like I did. Right now, do the best you can to build your relationship with her. Don't try to rush her into anything because that always ends up in a bad situation. And before its too late, tell her how you feel, when your ready. You never know what could happen. I hope this helps you in every way possible.
2006-10-22 10:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by bchs_softball_player 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really just ask her and say are you ready to like hang out a lot more and be closer to each other. Also try seeing if like she wants to go to one of her favorite places or movies. that willl get her closer to you
2006-10-22 09:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by carson s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see.
make a note of what she likes, and show her that you remember what she likes, like how she likes her coffee, or a favourite character of plush toy or something. And surprise her with it, on her birthday, or a random gift for an unknown special day.
Show her you care for her, and not for her body.
engage in intellectual chat, or similar interests, look her in the eyes, little things like that.
But if she rejects you after all that effort, i AM sorry....
All the best.
2006-10-22 09:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by opticalapparatus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a mysterious admirer ... send him flowers and things till she notices and is curious about this mysterious fellow and then ask her whether she'll date him without makeing her realise its you... if she says yes leave another note telling to her meet you at some romantic place without disclosing your Identity . If she is hassistent assure her and when she goes their meet her discose your identity ... and if she gets angry tell her you wanted her to know you...
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otherwise just ask your and her common friend to tell her
2006-10-22 09:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by Harmony Ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way she is going to understand, without her having to be a mind reader is for you to say " hey i like you/want you......."
2006-10-22 09:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something romantic and see how she reacts to that, than you will get your answer for example.... send her flowers telling her she has a beautiful smile!
2006-10-22 09:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by da gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
liking and loving in two diffrenet think. do one thing.
asking 4 date shouln't be a problem to you if u think that she likes u .
2006-10-22 09:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say "I like you" Just ask her for a date. She will know you like her and if she accepts, that means she likes you too.
Simple, huh?
2006-10-22 09:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋