me n my boyfriend just broke up and i miss him. we both decided we should be friends but i am trying to cover up to everyone i am not upset howerver when i try to do something i cant stop thinking of him i keep crying over nothing it hurts loads yes i am rather young i am 15 but it still hurts and i just want him back. but i know i cant. i just want him to get out of my head because it hurts. if you can help please. xox
2006-10-22 02:32:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When ever you come out of a relationship it is always hard and it always hurts even if you know it's the right thing to do. In time it will get easier but in the meantime try and do different things than what you did when you was together and try avoiding the places you went together. Even though you've decided to be friends don't hang onto his friendship like a lifetime, give yourself some space. Soon you'll realise that your not thinking about him as much. Hope you get better soon. xx
2006-10-22 02:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything hurts worse when you are fifteen. Hurting is still new and fresh and it is painful to know that you hurt and he is doing nothing, (maybe even enjoying himself) when you hurt so bad.
The best thing to do is to keep busy with activities and friends so he doesn't get even the satisfaction of thinking you were so hooked on him. You don't want him back, you want what you had back, you learned something from him that you will take into your next relationship. That is what will happen with boyfriends until you find the man who will make you happy. You sort of try on boys till you find out exactly what it is that you like in a man. If you do it right you will be happy for the rest of your life, because you will know what kind of behavior pleases you the most.
2006-10-22 09:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time you will get over this & Mr. Right will come along for you. It would help if you go back to why you guys decided to just be friends & work from there. For 15 you have got alot on your shoulders right now so learn to love & play & be happy with your life cause good things are in your future.
2006-10-22 09:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bexx, Try to spend more time in doing something which will help you avoid his thoughts. Stay away from any place, person, referernce, subject which gives you any thoughts about him! More importantly, RESOLVE within yourself that you want him away from your life! The easier way to resolve that way is to think about the question that "Will he be having the same urge to get you back?". I am sure the answer is NO and that question will help you resolve your commitment to forget him! Tk Cr. X, tom bh37bh37@yahoo.com
2006-10-22 09:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to orget about him. Say eveytime ou think about him you will have to go down and do 20 push ups! Try toi join clubs or something./ Get rid og everything that will remind you of him. And don't worry you are still young you have plenty of time to fall in love again
2006-10-22 09:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweet sorry to here this,try and keep yourself busy go out and have fun with your friends,it will get easier as time moves on your only young and there will be others in the mean time keep your chin up and take care .....hope every thing works out for you ...........
2006-10-22 09:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i know you will miss him for a while. talk to your friends and family about it - don't bother trying to cover it up. they will want you to feel better, not to try and hide your emotions. try and do something fun over half term, spend time with your girlfriends, watch movies, make something, get a manicure/haircut.
take care of yourself
2006-10-22 09:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by sarah_roo03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look hunny, it can be really hard as you are so young, but listen their are plenty more fish in the sea. try not to worry too much. and try doing more activities and getting out the house.... hope this helps, chin up eh hun!!.xxxx
2006-10-22 10:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by clicky j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 get on with your life girl while you can. trust me your gona have alot more hurt than that before your done. get out there have fun and get what you want out of life before you tie yourself to any bloke. im 25 and talking from experience.
2006-10-22 10:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by angelalways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get together with another gut if this doesn't solve the problem than try real hard to get yo man back
2006-10-22 09:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋