i cheated on my ex then got w this person now i am very unhappy but she is really good to me. she buys me anything i want is always there when i need her but i dont even want to kiss her or have sex with her anymore i have so lost interest wat should i do?
2006-10-22 03:58:42 · 12 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its not fair to either of you to be in a relationship that is going nowhere. Its going to hurt, it always does, its part of being in a relationship. Explain to her you just don't see the relationship going anywhere and you don't want to hurt her. Tell her you would rather move on now when before there truly are problems between you two...
Good Luck
2006-10-22 04:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar - ish - situation to you (Read 'I think I'm bi .... kinda cheated (uh-oh?)?'. in the Lesbian/Gay section (Can't remember the section's exact name right now,sorry).
The question's closed now but it's there for reference.
If I was you, I'd tell her you're not interested, and if you still want your ex, let him (or her, maybe) know.
It'll be hard, but try and find the courage to do so face to face. Then your current woman won't see it as all that bad (Simply texting/emailing/phoning her is cowardly).
2006-10-22 04:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by swelwynemma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make plans to leave. Don't try to do it by using her any longer than you already have. Write her a letter and mail it to her then you can't take it back. People cry when they are hurt, there is nothing you can do. After mailing the letter cut contact so you won't have to explain your decisions.
2006-10-22 04:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot avoid hurting her if she loves you very much and you dont feel the same way. But you'll hurt her more if you keep her and hide your real emotions to her.
Best bet is to be honest to her ... and say you dont want to hurt her because you care a lot about her BUT youre not happy in the relationship ...
good luck! =)
2006-10-22 04:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by red_hac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really have feelings for you there is nothing you can do to stop her crying, if she really love you then she will cry an she will be hurt so thats a lost
2006-10-22 04:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats impossible.if she cares about you and does nto knwo your cheatin situation...she'll be hurt an cry reglardless. do whats best for you. put ur heart and feelings first then hers.Its your life you have to better.do whats MAKES YOU happi!
2006-10-22 04:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by SHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth. I lie hurts much more then the truth. Be an adult about the situation....
2006-10-22 04:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u still like her? if u do then tell her that u still like her but think that u two should break up for wutever reason. If u don't like her then u shouldn't care about her feelings.
2006-10-22 04:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant without hurting her. But you have to so just be nice, explain things and be on your way.
2006-10-22 04:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on ..grow up.. u cant. bc when relationships come to an end..they always hurt someone and someone always cries. just dont say the dreeded words..."its not u its me" bc its always them. duh why else would u want to break up with them.
2006-10-22 04:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋